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 Post subject: 70 Sets Later...
PostPosted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 12:27 am 
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Things I learned from daygame

1. Appearance makes a difference

WHAT I MEAN

That does not mean you have to be good looking! You have to be well groomed, and dressed well.

REASON

If you look good you will feel better about yourself.
Women will be more interested in you.
Sets will open easier.
It shows them who you are.

2. Being your self
I know sounds cliche, but listen to me before you skip this part.

WHAT I MEAN

Knowing who you are. Which is easier said than done.
Not changing your true personality because of suggestions of other people.
Dressing the way that makes you feel good.(Dress to impress yourself not others!!!)

3.Approaching/Body Language
How you come in to the set will really determine if they hook or not.

WHAT I MEAN

Don't go running towards them if they can see you.
Always open over the shoulder.
Don't stand in front of them blocking there way if they are moving.
Walking with them increases comfort.
Direct works, but you have to have something important to say afterwards that will keep them hooked.
Indirect is the easiest.

4.Hooking
How to actually keep them there.

WHAT I MEAN

The more dry the question the easier it is to hook them.
Stories work best to hook them. Open then story.
When going direct deal with obstacles immediately.
Which ever girl is furthest away from you get her into the conversation immediately otherwise she will get jealous, and she will make your target leave.
Make sure to calibrate based on there age.(This is huge if you are going to a mall or somewhere that less experienced people might be.)
Always be the conversation leader.
Keep it constantly changing go from funny to serious and all around.

5. ME: Can I get to know you? HB: Maybe :) Or I have a boyfriend
This is after around a ten minute conversation.

WHAT I MEAN

If she says Maybe that means a yes, but you need to build more comfort or possibly dhv.
I have a boyfriend is easier than saying no.
That means you showed too much interest or she is testing you.
Use the stick man fallacy to get rid of that.
When she mentions boyfriend act nonreactive.
Keep gaming act if boyfriend objection was token resistance.
Don't mention it again.
Don't logic her to death as why she should give you her number.

6. Positioning/Body Language
You have to position your self in a way that makes you part of the group.

WHAT I MEAN

If walking walk with them.
If sitting pull up a seat.
If standing get comfortable against a wall.
Try to mirror there positioning
If they don't change there body posture then don't change yours.
Eye contact is a necessity.
Look at one person while completing one idea then move onto the next.
Body rocking.
Smile at the opening of the set.

Thats what I learned from my 70 sets.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 2:07 am 
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Good stuff.
I'm going to print this for my notes.

I see you're in Orlando. I plan to head up there soon for a weekend just to work on my game. I live in a small town an hour or so south of it. Any locations you can suggest for day game?


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 2:52 am 
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If you are looking for places to sarge at in Orlando you could try the florida mall it has the most amount of people. The millienium has a lot of people, but the florida mall is better for sarging purposes. Then International drive has a lot of people walking around. Then I am not sure about downtown during daytime, but at night of course its good.


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great stuff, nothing can be exchanged for expierence.

someone can tell you how to drive a car, but you don't know how until youve done and practiced.

i bet your felt a 'click' or 'i get it' moment once starting to have success too.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 6:46 pm 
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cheers for this post buddy trying to improve my daygame myself so this will come in useful

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 Post subject: 30 Sets after that
PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 8:48 pm 
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7.Kinoing

WHAT I MEAN

Kino = touching
Sounds stupid, but if she gets use to you touching her thats just one more quality you have with someone she would call her boyfriend
A friend doesn't touch her normally, but a boyfriend touches her all the time
Touching creates attraction
Think about doesn't it feel good to get touched by a girl. Almost doesn't matter who.
Touching will keep you out of the friend zone.

8. Unrelenting Escaltion

WHAT I MEAN

Escalate until she makes you stop!!! I mean go as far as you can go until she makes you stop!
You have all heard that kino is key.
Most hear, but they actually don't do it.
Hey guess what if you don't escalate she will only see you as an interesting guy. Not as a guy she wants to fuck.

WARNING
Only escalate if she likes you, and the you aren't putting too much social pressure.

8. A She will try to cut the sexual tension

WHAT I MEAN

When the girl feels the sexual she will try to break it.
DON'T LET HER!!!
Unless she shows a definite to the extreme IOD or says something like get off me
The more sexual tension there is the more attracted she will feel for you.
WE ARE MEN, AND THEY ARE WOMEN WE WERE DESIGNED TO MATE!!!

9. Number Closing ain't shit

WHAT I MEAN

I used to think the number was like a prize. Guess what it may be impressive to your friends, but guess what ... You just go into the hardest territory all your routines are drooped because most pua's don't teach solid phone game.
WHY
Guess what they don't have it themselves.
Getting a number is easy if you talked to the girl for around 20 mins, and she doesn't have a bf she will give it to you easily. If you were interesting.
It looks cool, but go for the number as your minimum requirement.
GO BIG OR GO HOME

9. Got to keep them there

WHAT I MEAN

The set will have real life time constraints that will affect the pickup.
You need to be aware of those time constraints
Best way to keep them with you is to go for an instadate
Use stories to entertain them and keep them there.

10.Getting Hired Guns

WHAT I MEAN

You have to break there routine.
Must create a situation of some isolation.
Can't pick them up if they are busy.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 6:03 am 
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I'm interested in your success with trying to stop women vs walking with them. Yad and Yosha usually aim for the stop, but I have had success by walking alongside of them.


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Actually in my recent days of gaming I have had no problem getting there number stopping them or walking alongside them confidence is the key thing. Also you need to keep in mind that if they are walking or in a bad location its harder to kino. Always be tactical where you decide to game at.


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Running after them sucks.

Stopping them (exactly like how badboy does) works amazing (i tried it infield)
If they have their backs turned to you putting your hands on their shoulders and turning them slowly WORKS GREAT.

When i do indirect,i pretend i`m about to go somewhere,and like a feet away from the target i run the opener,over the shoulder.it works good.

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