So, this is a really really big SP for me.
I am simply affraid of kino escalating.
Today I was with this girl I like (had to do some stuff for sorority, so not a date or anything). She did send out IoI and shit, but im just affraid to kino escalate.
It doesn't only occur with this girl but with like every girl in te past so far.
I am affraid i will look like a retard randomly touching her etc.
Any tips on how to kino?
I know it sounds strange lol. hope u guys can help me!
and 'just do it' wont work this time, sadly

Sure when you talk put your hands in front of you and gesture. Then you don't have to go as far to touch her and it won't look as akward. However to be honest until you get use to it, it's going to be weird for you.

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Sadly it's the only proper advice you can get.
But let me put it this way: by no means are you obliged to physically touch a girl to get her aroused. So this whole touch the arm, smell her hair, grab her neck etc stuff isn't necessary per sé. Phone sex is a great example of verbal escalation. But it's much easier to just simply touch the girl. And finally: it will only be weird if you think it's weird.

you should try the 'trust test' routine on a girl. put out your hands, and ask her to put her hands on top. tell her your going to give her the trust test. Begin by lowering your hands, if she follows, she trusts you and you can continue kino. Some easy pointers would be yo just touch her on her shoulder, friendly punch, etc. PM me if you want more help on kino.

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What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?

I know its the only advice, but I dont know where to start haha.
I can't think of any example implementing touch in a conversation, unless its in a loud club where you put your hand on her lower back (this is only kino I use, and its not for the sake of kino).

I was talking to someone about breaking the touch barrier and he said what works really well for him was to wear a ring. Take it off, play with it, roll it to her, put it on her.

I started using my watch. I like it because:
1. It keeps excellent time.
2. It is quite large and looks fantastic (Many people have given me compliments on it)
3. For the reason of #2 I use it as a conversation piece.

There's a girl in my Spanish class I'm interested in and today I managed to incorporate it into the conversation and do some kino.

Her: That looks like a pretty high tech watch.
Me: Yeah I love it. Its really heavy though. I've actually cut myself on it by accident.
Her: Haha
Me: Here, hold your hand out. *I take it off, grab her wrist, and put it on her. Then she lifts her arm up and it slides down almost to her elbow lol*

like i said...give her the trust test...

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?