so a buddy of mine and his wife invite a HB8 from their home town to stay the weekend. i dont hear about this till yesterday and they are hinting to me that she is single so i come over to meet her that day. oh yea she is great is every catogory....she even mentioned she plays call of duty OMG. but im geting no indicators... none...and i figure maybe some more time so we all sit down on the couch and go over pics she took over the time she was here and we lean in and im carefully droping lines like "you look great there" etc but .. no wtf. so it gets time to go to bed and still no ...she gave me no hint or code nothing so in a house of 4 people counting myself with two bed rooms i got the couch!! best part she left this morning.
i had this sick im not good enough to be in the same room with her feeling the entire time i was talking to her. i know these feelings were bullsh@# but its like every time i set eyes on her this would happen and completely shut me down!!! so now im piss@!... im a good looking guy and im fully capable of doing what i set out to do.. but because of fu@#ing feeling it did not happen!!!
dose anyone know what my problem is.. anything.. anybody

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DID YOU KINO THE GIRL????? dude sounds like you were acting like an afc that night.

Sounds like you need to do a lot of research about inner game and read some books about the pu game.

For starters, read The Game by Neil Struass if you haven't already. And as for inner game, I'd reccommend you read NLP: The New Technology of Achievement. It has exercises in it to help reframe the way your mind works and teaching you lots of cool stuff. Good luck!

Yea not to put you down but the whole thing sounded AFC, why did you tell her she looked good in a picture? Did she earn that compliment from you?

What you should have done was practiclly ignore her at first, neg her when she tried to get your attention, or that of others. Then slowly allowed her into YOUR reality. Make her earn your attention, make her qualify herself all while you DHV yourself.

Idk why but to me, when someone generally mentions using a "line" or "lines", it just bleeds AFC to me. A beginner PUA usines material, at worst a grouping of lines with a greater goal (a routine/gambit)...an experienced PUA just has to be themselves, of course the stories and material are there, but its all on the fly genuine stuff.

You saying "You look great..." isnt a line, its validating her when she didnt earn it, thus DLV'in yourself. If she is attractive then she probably hears dudes tell her she looks good all the time. She has built a defense to this and even if she liked you before that, afterwards she wouldnt like as much if at all. (or at least she wouldnt display it as willingly).

Hope this helps, and my advice would be along the lines of other peoples. Work on your image, your mentality, and your demenour. Read some more material, develope your inner game while you work on outter game.

Hope this helps

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well said Ka

yeah unless u change, u will always sleep on the couch.