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My first topic is probably going to look quite noobish, however I want to gather numerous opinions before I decide what to do.

So there is extremely hot girl in my college, she's incredible, but we have never really spoke before, i've always wanted to but never really known how.

At the weekend we both went on a night out and she was entering a club as I was leaving with my mate who is friends with her.

She said hey to him and then asked if I knew who she was? I said yeah and told her I liked her outfit, and we had a bit chit-chat.

I then seen her again later in the night and we flirted a little bit, I took her hat off her and told her it looked better on me and she seemed to like it. She was with some dude she met on the night and she to my surprise told him I was her boyfriend, probably because she wasn't intrested and wanted him to back off. I was tempted to say yeah we are, can't you tell and then kiss her, however after only speaking to her for about 10 minutes in total I thought it'd be a bit riskaayy.

I really want to date this girl but I don't really know what to say to her now when I see her in college. I seen her today and she asked me to come with her to a lesson we're both in, she was with a big group and I didnt follow, but when I came to class late she looked at me and smiled, and she looked intrested.

If you were me, when you see her tomorrow (she'll probably be with her girl friends I don't know) how would you approach it? It's her birthday tomorrow too. Just want to see a variety of different peoples thoughts? I know it's pretty noobish but I will improve.

Wish her happy birthday and ask what she's doing for her birthday. Start some chit-chat from there.

Bottled it. Fuck sake.

yea dude.. you must stop being a pussy. She wants you.. go get it. When you see her, approach an suggest you and her meet up to study later on in the day. Get her number and make moves. Shes throwing it at you and begging you to take a stab at it. Get it done, heres your opportunity..

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Ahh...it's just this one girl, even though I know I could probably start seeing her, I can just never get the bottle to go up in the first place! and once we are both in the same room and I don't say anything as soon as I walk in, I just convince my way out of it and end up regretting it!

It seems to be just this one girl though cos I've overthought it. I got another girls number today without even thinking about it (she was like a yet when it comes to the one I like I just don't know what to say!

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The more you're making a fuzz of it, the smaller you're chances will get. Calm down, she's probably cool and all but she's only human.

Yeah you're right. I'm deffo overthinking it. At the end of the day it's just a girl. I'll try talk to her and worst case scenario I'll just not get any further. It's easier said than done though

Pussied out of it, I wasted my opporunity, one day passed, two days, and so on, I'd see her every day and ignore the opportunity, I thought i'd just have to move on to otehr girls, untill she was in one of my classes, teacher is my savouire, she put us together, and we worked in a group!

This was my opportunity to strike, but I was so fucking nervous, I have all the knowledge in the world but I havent applied it to real life situations, I don't have a lot of experience.

Some things worked, others didn't. We worked in a group doing an art project for the wall. I flirted with her a bit, kept great eye contact when we spoke, I can;t remember exactly everything that happened as I was so god damn nervous! I do remember negging her with "it's not my fault if the drawing looks rubbish, _ has weird hands, anyway..." Speaking to the group and exlcuding the target, (I was drawing her hands)

We seemed to have fairly good banter, but she only gave occasional IOI's. And she also just picked up her stuff and left abruptly when the bell went, this might have been a shittest though.

I didn't perform my best, but she doesnt think i'm a creep, i've built rapport with her so now things can esculate from here...(hopefully)

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What to say?! What to say?! What the fuck should I say?! I'm sat down and she's just came over. I need to say something now or I won't ever do it.

"Ah, you lost your shoes too?" (friends hid my shoes in the common room)

Fuck, that was such a shit opener! Why the fuck did I say that!?! I could have at least said something witty like, " I like your shoes " (she wasn't wearing any). Fucks sake. she's going to think i'm a creep.

To my surpise she responded positively, and we ended up chatting for a while, I remember making her laugh a lot too. But as with most my chat up's, I seem to get mixed reactions. We only spoke for a little while, at the beggining of the convo i must have turned to a tomato shade, i was so nervoous. I did some things brilliantly, and we naturally had a good conversation, with not much stuff from "the game" or any lines, but obviously this gives me a more chance of fucking up.

I was playing guitar and she asked me what I could play. I replied "You wouldn't like anything I play..."

This came out so fucking wrong, haha, In my head I was thinking this will make her be like " I will like what you play, tell me what you can play, i want to know what music you like, i want to know more about you"

instead she just looked strangely confused and was like "...what..." in a quiet voice.

I fucked that one up, i replied with, go on tell me what music you like and the convo just died out as there was more intresting things going on.

I've said some good things and some bad, I don't think she's into me at the moment, but i'm hoping i can change that.

Where do you reckon I should go from here? Ill 100% see her tomorrow so i'd love any feedback from you guys!!!!

your too invested mentally, it's not going to work unless you relax.. And stop trying to neg her, it isn't even necessary.. " you wouldn't like anything I play?" huh???? How about " oo yea, im alright.. here ill play you something(and sing some corny funny song)"

Your pushing her away... Just do the opposite of everything you would normally do and i think you'll be fine lol

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haha that gives me loads of confidence...haha