So i have this girl coming over that I went to HS with and now we go to the same community college. I saw her got her number we text back and forth w.e.. Turns out we have the same Bday which is fuckin crazy.

Anyway she agreed to come over to my place on Monday to watch a movie. I already told her something along the lines "I don't even wana watch a movie if we cant cuddle because I feel awkward" or something like that lol. She said thats cool w.e..

I'm pretty sure I have a shot at hooking up with this girl, but I have problems escalating.

Any tips I would greatly appreciate

Do not over-think this situation. In her mind, she'll have sex with you as long as you don't screw things up. A woman won't go to your place to "watch a movie" if she isn't ok with becoming intimate or having sex with you.

1- Do not get too physical too quick. Give her some space at the beginning so she can relax around you.

2- Do not try to get her drunk. If you do so, she may think that you are just doing it to get into her pants. It could backfire on you.

3- Do not make sexual references too soon. You're not 14. You don't have to play children's games to have sex with a woman nowadays.

4- When she gets to your place, receive her with a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Do it as if it's totally normal for you. This will help break the tension and will get her in a comfortable mood.

5- Candles. I know it sounds a bit gay or whatever, but women like them, and they also like guys who are not afraid to show that "delicate side".

6- Start the kino escalation with palm reading. You don't have to know how to do it, you just have to make it fun. Caress her hand as you do your "magic" .

7- Tell her a secret. It should be some kind of compliment about her looks. The reason why it should be a secret is so you have a chance to get close to her ear and whisper something nice. This is a form of kino, and can help you escalate. If you make the secret about her personality, she could take the hint that you're interested in a relationship. BEWARE.

8- The interaction does not have to be in your bedroom. Even sex doesn't have to start there. If things get a bit hot, make it happen wherever you are without killing the moment. Make sure you have a condom available (pockets).

Hope it helps.

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Thank you I was definitely going to try and do all of the things you told me not to do lol because i was just going to try and be a boss. I'll take it slow and try what you said n see what happens. Definitely not trying to be in a relationship with this girl, but I am trying to make this a FWB situation.

Good shit bansario

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