I'm 18 by the way- have little AA and girls are generally attracted to me. I'm gonna try to game a few girls while on a cruise vacation and see how that goes. I'm just curious if you should tell a chick you're a "virgin". Not sure if that's a turn on or if they'd rather have someone more experienced. Part of the reason why I haven't fucked is cause AIDS man...STD's are no joke I've read some nasty ass stuff you can get from fucking strangers- you can never be careful. There's really no way you can actually tell if she lies to you. How do you make sure, just straight up ask her "you don't got any STD's, do you?"?

You definitely do NOT want to tell them you're a virgin. You don't have to lie, you just don't bring the subject up. On the off-chance that you get asked, laugh it off and act cocky, flirtatious, amused...

Whether or not you are a virgin is not something that is going to even enter her mind. When you are with a girl, keep your discussion focused on the two of you...not ex's, or past experience, or future desires for other girls.
If you're sleeping with someone you don't know and trust, use a condom for God's sake! In daily life, when actually forming a relationship, you can get to know a girl better and build more trust to the point where you can trust her and use the pill. Or, it's not uncommon for one partner to ask the other to get tested. I was dating a girl not long ago that made me get tested before she would sleep with me. After three weeks of pent up desire, the sex was way better than it would have been otherwise. As in, I'm glad I waited...because honestly, having sex with someone you don't know is not very special. You may not realize this yet because you're a virgin, but even for a guy the pleasure of sex is mostly emotional. It's not physical stimulation that gets you off, it's the thoughts in your mind and the more foreplay you get the better the sex will be.

Docta is right on both counts.

Your making an issue of being a virgin, that's your issue not hers, thus she doesn't need to know.

The STD question, considering condoms, is just silly. If you want to be 100% safe never log on this site again as it serves no purpose.

I'm gonna be stuck on cruise ship for 14 days 8 of which are on the ship at sea. Typically how should I meet people my age if they're all with family on vacation? I thought girls LIKED virgins guess I was wrong.

I don't know much about it but I would assume girls don't want a virgin, if a girl told you they liked virgins then I would be doubly sure that girls don't like virgins.

Work on good posture, swagger, and other aspects of body language and dress as you walk about the ship so when girls notice you they think your someone cool - even inf your not. When you see a girl who is attractive to you and not surrounded by a ton of people approach and open with whatever material you have , canned or situational. In any case be prepared to approach girls and open.

bon voyage

I have all of that I get people checking me out- including guys because I dress well, wear cologne, and groom my hair nicely. Tall and fit, perfect posture and really laid back. People compliment me on appearance and stuff like "i like your shirt" I typically wear expensive button downs. But I was stupid and didn't realize those were IOI's. It's not a matter that I can't get laid- I'm just cautious and very picky.

I'm curious and this may sound awkward, but I know normal sex is different than porn. If you come on a girl she could be pissed, so how do you know to come in/on them? I don't think people talk about what they will do when doing it- they just do it.

do you meaqn cum in them or cum on them or cum on their face?

If jizzing on her tits or face is what you want you ask for it. Some girls will do it. Others won't. It's like cumming in her mouth. Some will be ok with it, some won't.
Talk it through. If you're into fetisj'n'stuff, talk ik through. You'll be surprised with the results.

BTW the best thing to say when a girl mentions previous bedpartners is "don't ask, don't tell."

I meant like coming anywhere; pussy, face, tits, whatever. I don't want to just do it and have her be pissed. People actually talk beforehand about where to come? or do they ask while doing it "I'm about to come where do you want it?." The latter seems too pornstar-ish.

you need to calibrate what she will let you get away with. Most chicks like to be dominated in bed to differing extents. Hair pulling, dirty talk, finger sucking, spanking, slapping, light choking, and physically moving the girl around and gauging her response will tell you all you need to know regarding what you can do to her with experience.

How about condom?