I have a problem. There is something wrong with my text style. I can get girls to be engaging during text with :] replies all the time but when I hint at us going out she is always busy has some excuse.

Wat do?

Post some texts so we can see

A lot of girls like to flirt, get attention, and relieve boredom via texting anyone that will engage ithem. Guys have a purpose and a goal, woman often times don't.

Aww I got you, I've been brushing up on my Text game lately.

So look like detox75 said most girls don't have a goal when texting. But remember you do, I never text for no reason unless it's to a friend or finding out some logistics.

Whenever I text a girl my main purpose is to always meet up. My goal is to lead up to a meeting unless otherwise, but I do it indirectly and I usually have her to the point of suggesting it her self.

Textings main purpose in Pick Up
(I would say for me is just these 5 things)

1. Attraction
2. Comfort
3. Rapport
4. Giving her a small sneak peak of who I am
5. Logistics

That's it, now I'm going to break it down to you so you know why I chose those 5 things to be the most important. That'll give you a general idea on how to lead up to getting the girl on that Day2 and not flake.

Okay for 1 & 2 I do this to be fun and flirtatious and to get her interested. But I never go direct cause shit can be miss interpreted, I usually like to qualify & push-pull.
Now for 3 & 4, as she starts to get interested I then love to always leave her wanting more, One very important thing I can say for texting is to never do full conversations through text.

When you text a girl think of yourself as a Movie. You wanna get her to see it right? Then be mysterious, and give her intrigue. You wanna use texting just to give her a bunch of sneak peaks of yourself. Give her a reason why she should want to see the full movie, the reason to meet up with you.
Also if she still doesn't want to meet then let her feel like shes missing out by not hanging with you, employ some jealousy. Let her know that if she won't go then you'll find someone else. Remember your the Prize

In conclusion, basically when your texting her make sure to like I said "leave her wanting more" so then next time when you hint she won't give you an excuse, what I like to do is say something like "omg, lolz you won't believe what happened" then quickly change subject, open loop, multi-thread and then when she goes back to the big story I originally did't get to tell her, I say "its a bit long for text, it's better if I tell you in person" lolz. But yeah you know give her that reason to meet you, when you finally offer it.

And Finally 5, when you seal the deal and are going to meet up, make her say yes to it, don't take a BS crappy vague response.

And on or the day before call her, to get those logistics, see its way harder for a girl to flake when they have to do it in person or on a live phone call.

I hope that helps you

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your 5 step system looks amazingly similar to the steps outlines in the Love Systems program and found in Magic Bullets. What a coincidence!

Anyway, your trying to accomplish a lot via text and I think that's overly ambitious. I like your idea of just moving the text to a meet up as soon as viable. Trying to build attraction , rapport, and comfort via text is a fools errand. Stick to establishing a modicum of credibility and a hint of intrigue and humor and your way ahead of the game.

Just remember never make a text boring or predictable, always go for interesting or funny.

Actually, lol I didn't know that was similar to an existing program, really I've just been researching/practicing my Texting game for the past 2 months, and that's what I came up with, putting together all I've learned.

Oh and yeah if it was a system it would be trying to accomplish a bunch lolz, But naw what I'm trying to say is that the 5 things are just a basic idea. Really all you need to do is pick 1,2, or 3 and keep 4 in your mind through out and 5 is self explanatory, and it doesn't really need to be in order, like its not a plan just a tactic that'll help you get some were.

Oh and also that's right go for interesting or funny, (keep it short & flirty). Its always better to save the full conversations for phone calls, and the real good stuff for person, When your a High Value person you don't have time to waist on the phone cause your always busy. Give a girl that impression and she'll want to have that one on one

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