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#1: ignore her when she does that:
when she insults or teases you in a bad way pretend like it's never happened, ignore and don't respond, she must get absolutely no clue from you that what she's saying is existing and affecting you. Just keep talking about something else.
Actually this is the one i've been doing , yesterday there was this little discussion over a definition of a word , it just took 15 seconds until i called the teacher since he was around to ask if the definition i was saying was right , and mine was correct and to make sure i also asked him if her definition was right or not , and actually her's was wrong , so right after this she started accusing me being obsessed with showing off that i'm better than anybody els in class and that i was intending to humble her front of the teacher....(she didn't say it loudly) i was shocked cause even for 1% i didn't mean that , so i just leaned back on my chair with a sarcastic smile , after she was finished , this time on purpose i told another girl in the group that my definition was the correct one , she got mad again and continued insulting me but i didn't change my face expression....
so as you see , sometimes it's her attacking me for a nonsensical reason like a nasty dog , and even if i reward that nasty dog , she will bite me someday again , i want to take the power and this reward thing is good to use for later but now i want to say something to show that i'm the one in control and later i can do the dog training , and ignoring her is getting kinda stale as well ,it didn't work on her