| There's a girl (HB8) who I've been seeing slightly for a while at university (were both Freshers), although we haven't even kissed yet, mainly because I hadn't had and opportunity to see her alone. I finally get her out to dinner, we have a really good time, although she keeps saying that I'm a bit of a womanizer and need to settle down etc etc agree to meet up later in a club, I get stuck in the queue, and by the time I get in, she gave up looking for me apparently, and I run right into her making out with a guy I know, who she apparently thought I was trying to set her up with.
We were both quite drunk, and I got quite despondent and sat down on a couch, and she kept coming up and saying "whats wrong, cheer up, etc etc" until I eventually blurted out that I really liked her (stupid I know) and she just looked really taken aback and just said that she had no idea how I felt, etc etc. Now the thing is, since finding out about the game, I've been getting fairly successful, and my aforementioned catastrophic error was to basically, during the other times I spoke to her, tell her about the successes I have been having.
She said shed text me today, and I get a text saying.
""I don't know what to say - I genuinely thought you wouldn't get with loads of people/ tell me about it if you did like me."
She was originally giving me tons of IOIS, but I think that she figured I wasn't interested, but the other guy I know, who I introduced her to, started making contact with her. She said to me, a little while after I introduced him, "oh hes cute, can you get me his number" which I figured was just a shit test. However, after he contacted her, she thought I was trying to set them up. Did she just figure "oh hes not interested, so hes trying to set me up with his mate instead?"
Put shortly, I haven't been LFBF'd yet, but I have no idea what to do in this situation. I actually want to date this girl btw.
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