Hi, this is my journal

End Goal

To be able to approach any hot girl I want and do a damn good job at it and close.


I know it's a bit vague but its the only way i can describe it.


How im going to learn

I will use STREET/DAYGAME.

Learn how to:

OPEN

HOOK

VIBE

MOVE/QUALIFY

CLOSE

DAY2

FULL CLOSE


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Each one will be focused on at a time until i think i have learnt the 'skill'.


Recap

I heard about game in 2010 August but although i was on here on a different account, i never really gamed.

I opened a little and i even had the occasional close but not properly learning how to game and attracting the girls i wanted.

So around march i really REALLY went to basics: opening grannies and older women down some lonesome street as i couldnt even do that in front of other people.

It was just for the time and I'd have to be "Excuse me! sorry to bother you!" in a high pitched scared voice. Even going fuzzy when approaching slightly more attractive ones.

Not cool eh. Anyway, now close to a city since i went uni, i have slowly SLOWLY learnt to open proper hotties in the street, the girls I've dreamed about and im just about to start learning to hook.


Here are my field reports.

WEDNESDAY 12th OCTOBER 2011




Goal

Open 5 girls

What Happened

Leaving uni in the morning I said to a hot girl walking in the same direction as me "I thought it might actuallly NOT rain today" as it was raining, she laughed. Good start to the morning!

In the town I used a coffee shop opener on a redheaded hottie.

Then i randomly decided to go to Manchester City for the first time since i came to Uni.


In the train station i asked a hottie for directions to the city centre, she was foriegn.

Asked another foriegn girl for city centre directions and she gave them (seriously I always somehow open people who can't speak english, It's funny, perks me up whilst im out gaming).

Then i used the coffee shop opener on a hot blonde in a big open area.

Next i used the coffee shop opener on a SMOKING HOTTIE, at first i saw her and chuckled at the thought of even opening her but i caught the thought and corrected it. She was probably the friendliest girl i opened today.

Then i asked a girl was smoking a fag for directions, she was probably the least friendliest as she gave me a weird look and didnt even really help. I dont mean to sound chauvenistic but she was the least attractive yet the least friendliest, which is a good lesson learnt for terms of not approaching hot girls.


Review

Manchester is great, its the PERFECT place to open hot girls, so many of them all day unlike at home where i could walk around for an hour and not see one.

The whole "oh i cant open her, she's too hot, she'll blow me out" is false. I kinda knew this just never really experienced it as i usually get shy around hotties haha.

Work on EC, VOICE and now THE HOOK

FRIDAY 14th OCTOBER 2011

goal

Open 10 hot girls in Manchester


What Happened

As i came into the city i asked a girl on a quiet street for directions to the city centre, she was friendly.

Next i used the coffee shop opener on a girl in the shopping mall.

I walked around for a while eating food and drinking coffee, went back to the mall and used the coffee shop opener on another girl. So far, all hot girls and friendly!

Walking around the city I decided to try out a new opener, well one i havent used before. I asked a girl for directions/ personal opinion of any good Menswear clothes shops. She was really helpful!

I went back into the mall and asked a hottie for more menswear directions, again friendly.

Next This really hot blonde was walking along my direction, i ask her for coffee shop directions, we made good eye contact, I knew i could of hooked her as she seemed quite happy I was speaking to her and held EC, if only i could hook!!!!

Next i asked another girl for coffee shop directions and she didnt really know.

Whilst waiting for a tram to pass i ask a really hot girl for Menswear clothes shop directions, she didnt know any.

Now i was looking for my bank in the city so i did 3 more approaches but i dunno if they count because i genuinely was looking for a bank and thought i may as well ask hot girls.


REVIEW

I find waiting against a shop window or something is a great way to scan for hot girls, so you dont have to walk in one direction and hope there is one walking your way.

Best to open girls walking along in your directions, i used to ask people walking towards me so they would be out of my sight straight away and it'd be another worry off my head. Not now though!

Reword direction openers, so they're not questions. I havent really got MUCH evidence as i always end up saying it as a question but i get this feeling that it works better when i say it as a statement

E.g.

"Hey, do you know where the nearest coffee shop is?"

Versus

"Hey, Im looking for the nearest coffee shop, maybe you could help me"

Allows them to fill the void rather than respond to asking for something. Picky detail i know.


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Tomorrow I'll start attempting to hook. My goal will be to attempt 1 hook.

Strategy

COFFEE SHOP OPENER/MENSWEAR OPENER
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
"hey you're actually really friendly"
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
FEMALE BEHAVIOUR OPENER

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>I need to refine my Menswear opener to:

"Hey, im looking for the nearest fashionable Menswear clothes shop. Somewhere new to go to" Then when they ask what like, i respond, "I don't know. Somewhere you recommend".

>Female Behaviour opener:

"Actually, im in a hurry to meet a friend but the girls in my flat keep trying to dress me up in their clothes, is this normal female behaviour?"

(This is actually true, just slightly exagerrated).

Saturday 15th October 2011

Goal

Go Manchester and open 10 sets.

Attempt 1 hook.


What Happened

I randomly met a girl I sorta knew on the train. We started speaking, just friendly. Both going to Manchester, i didnt really have any excuse to NOT hang with her so i hung out with her and her sister for 2hours.

This meant i sorta lost the buzz as it was quite a bit later. I mean we had a good laugh and a great time but i wasnt there to chill out; i had business to sort out.

So after we'd seperated our ways i quickly opened a girl with the Coffee Shop opener, she seemed like she thought i was weird. Oh well.

Next i saw THE hottest girl walk passed me, dressed hot, had the sexy girl walk. So i walk after her trying to catch up (why do hot girls walk so fast? Why does it turn me on?), after about 2mins i catch up and use the coffee shop opener.

Turns out she is going in the direction of one to work and says she'll take me there, as I said Starbucks is a bit lame and somewhere else would be better.

I say she's suprisingly friendly for a big city girl and then i use the female behaviour opener, i realised i need to reword it.


Next i tried to open this smoking hot blonde, she looked like a model. Swear down! But she was walking fast and got on a bus when i caught up, i feel like a stalker sometimes. Soon this will all pay off though

So i opened a girl across the road, she didnt really speak english although she held good EC with me. Goddammit, i need to learn to carry things on.


For some reason i couldnt open anymore, although there were still a lot of hotties, mainly because everytime i saw one i wanted to open, the town was so busy i'd get cut off from approaching. grrrrrrrrr


Review

Need to reword female behaviour opener.

Also why do hot girls walk so fast, like super hot girls we're talking not just hot? There's probably some deep personality defect that causes me to find it so sexy.

I sometimes feel like i should've gone direct, is it too soon to go direct?

Is it best to learn indirect FIRST?

Direct seems like it'd be good for the hussle and bustle of city centres

Busy with Uni so its first time since Saturday ive been able to get out.

Thursday 20th October 2011


Grrr, 4hours sleep and THE BIGGEST spot on my nose, managed to pop it but was still there and made me self concious.


Anyway i get into town and the first girl i see is a head-turner, blonde bombshell, i used the coffee shop opener on her this time i said the proper script of making it a statement rather than a question, good.

I always make an excuse at the end of "im new here thats why im asking", i get the feeling i shouldnt say this, like im accepting the situation as weird and making an excuse when IT ISNT weird.

Anyway now i freeze up, girls walk passed but i only stop girls walking my way, at one point i 'forgot' how to open wtf anyway i use a menswear clothes shop opener on her, she was friendly but ive had friendlier, just helping me realise that just because someone is hot doesnt mean they're gunna blow you out.

Next i use the coffee shop opener on another girl, this time its done a lot better.

I also asked a hottie for the cinema directions (using it in the format of the coffee shop opener), she gave me directions, so i check out the cinema area as i might actually need to go there soon, and spot a hot redhead sitting with a Superdry bag, i ask her where the nearest Superdry store is.

I hate superdry but it was a spontanious opener and she was extra cute so i had to

I then bought a big hotdog and whilst sitting eating it, a girl next to me on a long bench is there; menswear clothes shop opener, she says the shopping mall.

Then i use it again on another girl she sends me off to some shop literally behind us and the others that are around us, me making excuses by saying im new (maybe blind would have been better haha). It turned out to be a good shop, might do some fashion shopping there soon.

Then as i was leaving the mall i used the cinema opener on a small but really hot blonde, she walked passed me and i stopped and looked and when i snapped out of it rushed in her direction to open her. Proper cartoony stop and stare. She was friendly.


Then i saw another girl like that standing around but i froze, mind went blank and i just rested around the corner waiting to anothe hottie to walk by when the same girl came and rested against the wall with me. I used the cinema opener on her i think, she didnt know though.

Last but not least i opened the hottest girl ive EVER seen. No shit and she was THE friendliest and most helpful. Damn i wiiiiiiiiiiiish i had game for that.


Review

Okay i was meant to hook and i didn't but at least im opening chicks that when i first started (after you get passed the fantasy stage) i genuinely never thought I'd open even if i stuck at it for ages. i always thought i'd open up a few cuties but nothing too special. I have this idea that if im always opening super hot chicks then i'll end up with superhot chicks to lay.

I mean if im only opening them then theyre the girls im gunna get eh.

Anyway, the 4day rest didnt help, i need to open maybe at least once or twice a day even if its just casual.

Also im pretty sure i opened 10 but im so tired and i try to stay in the moment that i cant remember exactly, also some of them might be written in the wrong order.


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Strategy For Hooking[u/]

Menswear Opener
"thanks youre actually really friendly for someone in the city"
Tyler Durden "do chicks dig expensive threads" opener, obviously worded in my manner.
(because these 2 blend really well.

*First just add the "thanks you're really..."
*Then on next few days add the TD opener
*Then maybe add the old school 'Kid falling into trashcan' story until i can think of my own one. I like that story as its really off-hand, short and kinda lame so it doesnt seem too try-hard.


peace bros!

I'll keep this one short. Its Friday.


Goal

Attempt 1 hook by using a follow up opinion opener.


What Happened

I went out and altogether i opened 7 girls. I'd say 1 of them was superhot, she had a nice hat. At first when i was walking in the mall, she was behind me and i couldnt open, i froze but i accepted the way i was and did it anyway.

Also i had the chance to hook, this girl stopped, face to face, good proximity, EC and i could tell i could have followed on and had a good interaction but my mind was blank. PRACTICE FOLLOW UP MATERIAL SO I CAN SAY IT EASILY.

Grrrrr i didnt attempt the follow up material, bad me. Tomorrow i will though. Pinky promise.


Also i missed out on so many chances its unreal. Next time i'll definitely do it.


Question/opinion: whats best, walking with you, towards you or standing still??

Feedback would be great

Saturday 22nd October 2011

Goal

Open super hot chicks and make 1 hook attempt (use follow up material)

Issues Addressed

- Being too busy and not opening in shops

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So i went into Manchester, hell was it busy, the few girls i could actually spot through the people traffic i couldnt even get too, then i'd do the usual wait too long and they'd go into a shop or something.

I opened twice: one was a pretty cute girl whilst on an escalator and another was whilst i was walking back to the train station, she was extra cute but i failed to use follow up material.

Also went upto a rep, she was a cute blonde, to ask about what she was offering. She made a joke about who to dress up, so i did a cold read on her irish accent to say she was from Belfast. Just being social though. Nice chat.

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Seriously need to write up my OWN follow up material and not to be afraid or restricted from making comments or observations about the girl in front of me. That is always a good idea for hooking and conversation starting.


peace

WEDNESDAY 26TH OCTOBER 2011

Goal

Attempt 1 hook

Results

Opened 7 girls in total from what i remember, seriously i have a bad memory. 1 sorta hooked, basically she was super friendly, which i mentioned and she took it as a compliment very well. Then i mentioned i have no idea about the city, i ask for where the cinema was, she asked me where i was from and got into a chat about it, turned out she went to where i lived every year.

Here are the points i have on that interaction:

*I wasnt fully taking control
*all i could think of was typical things like what do you do/study etc which i didnt say as i thought it was boring, i couldnt even think of much to say about her coming down to my place, she did most of the talking i felt.

*i should have introduced myself on her being so friendly

*could have broken rapport/sexualised it by saying something like "you're actually quite sexy when you smile"

*we actually had a good vibe in the convo. I need this but me making it happen rather than finding someone that friendly.

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Review

I started timing myself, i have to open every 10minutes

I started accepting the uncomfortableness of opening and doing it anyway a lot more.

Need to hook, the "friendly" remark went well, maybe add it more whilst still having 'inconvo' BL rather than as im leaving.

need follow up material, this was just me being lazy

Thursday 27th October

Goal

Get that one hook attempt.

Review

Failed. I opened 5 girls, i sorta did the 10minute rule (opening a girl every 10minutes) but i got distracted with needing food, also i didnt even have the buzz in my head i usually do.

I mean, i opened girls even when i was 'feeling' i shouldnt. You know the AA feeling you get but i accepted it and did it anyway.

Specific Problems

My voice is quite lame, it doesnt come across 'Alpha', i go quite high pitched and TR (trying rapport, when it goes up in pitch like a question)

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On a side note, There was this girl i met when i first came to uni, reallllllly hot but due to the circumstances (she lives with me), i decided to just be friends from the get go. But by accident ive come to quite like her, i dont think she likes me back and it seems like a lot of mess if i was to try.

Ive been here so many times before, which is why i tried to make sure it doesnt happen but it just happened :/ This doesnt help my self-esteem, i try and use it to fuel the fire in me but it just makes me depressed more.

Also because she's really hot, she's always getting with guys which sucks even more. Im still trying to not like her by cutting her out, not really speaking and accepting the way things are but ya know, emotions dont have logic.

So its the old GOFTW and general ignoring, cutting thoughts of her out and making sure i mention other girls im getting with to her (so im not putting her on the pedestal which will worsen my one-itis)


This was annoying me today.

Friday 28th October 2011

goals

Attempt that damn 1 hook

Review


I went out, i didnt feel too good about it. For some reason i couldnt get in the groove, i felt like not even opening 1 person.

Anyway i opened 7 in total. 1 of them was a super hottie as i saw another super hottie, hesitated a second on the open and BAM in the street they gone forever if you hesitate for a second.

"Fear turns into hesitation, and hesitation causes all your worst fears to come true"

Patrick Swayze

She was probably one of the hottest girls ive ever seen too, shame.

So my main problem was that i just wasnt in the right mindset.

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I need to write down and voice my openers, have a pre-game routine for getting in the zone.

I need to be able to say my follow up material without having to think too much. Stay in the city longer too.

Open every 10minutes (i sorta stuck to that today)

Also Ive read DYD and i believe it has some good inner-game notes and thought processes. I decided to read it as basically every pua has read it. ijjjji, 60, TD and others, those being my favourites too.

Im gunna start working on my STRENGTHS rather than my weaknesses and highlight my masculine traits each day

*ill follow up a report on how im going to do this later.


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Open every 10minutes

Learn follow up material

Use follow up material. Simple.

Oh yeah and when i refer to hotties and super hotties/really hot girls.

Im pretty picky and high standards, so when i say i approached a hottie, she was damn hot and when i say i approached a super hottie/really hot girl, i mean she was fiiiiiiiiiiiiine, hot as you can get.

Also i thought i'd mention posters ive read the archives of:

ijjjji - mainly innergame and sexualness

60years of challenge - mindset about actually sarging and the girls in general (he has a very 'no biggie'/calm way about it)

TD - just everything.

Saturday 29th October

Goals

Go out and get that one hook.

Open every 10minutes.

Review

I opened 5 girls in the space of hour and a half.

Grrr I know i need to have a quicker snap on my opening, i think too much.

One girl said she'd take me to the coffee shop as she was walking that way. 5mins away and i actually felt like having a coffee. We walked in absolute silence. Grrr.

One girl said she didnt drink coffee and i should have responded "neither do i, im just looking for a place to sit". Need to know all the possible outcomes of my openers.

Then on the train home i saw a sexy indian girl on the phone as i sat down we made eye-contact which I BROKE, realising i shouldnt have. every now and then on the 20min journey we caught eyes whilst she spoke on the phone. She got off a different stop though, i planned to actually open directly.

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I will go into town tomorrow, maybe just the town im in, instead of the city.

Every 10mins, time myself. Stop going for fast walkers, as thats why my opening takes so long, i cant catch up with girls i wanna open. This sounds so weird to write.

Also make 1 direct opener. . .maybe. I feel that if i can at least attempt direct game, I'll feel more comfortable sexually with women i game, even if im doing direct.


So recap

10mins for each open.

Avoid fast walkers.

Use the elongated coffee shop opener by AFCAdam.

Attempt to hook once.

Make at least 10 opens.

What Ive Learnt So Far

Open quick

Thought loop should be "its normal and social" or even "GIRL GIRL GO GO!".

They wont notice that you sorta creeped or caught up with them, its busy and theyre probably thinking.

People are always friendly, so there is no bad outcome.

I have developed a weird sense where i can tell which shop a girl is going into. Seriously when I see a girl, i quickly filter out whether they are gunna pop off into a shop and which shop. Its weird i know but sorta funny.

I always smile or laugh when it happens, im right about 90% of the time.

Hooking is a lot to do with eye contact and body language. As they determine whether the interaction is a quick Question or a proper talk.

You have to go out even if you dont feel like it. Especailly today, i couldnt think of a time when ive felt LESS like going out and speaking to people.

Voice has to be strong and EC. So important.

(This one is just a hunch) A short opener gets a short answer, a longer opener gets a longer answer. You can probably use this to get her to talk more and therefore invest more.


Opinion openers feel weird, thats why i have trouble hooking, if anybody knows any other way, I'll be very greatful!! Something weird about asking for an opinion about something i dont care about. PLEASE HELP!

Role Models

Ive decided to have some role models about what my social guy. seductive guy and sexual guy personalities are like.


Social Guy

i really like VINCE VAUGHN and OWEN WILSON in Wedding Crashers and Swingers.
I quiet like RYAN REYNOLDS in Green Lantern when he says "and there's. . . water in the tap". But i just like that line.

Those 2 guys are my role models so far, i quiet like Owen wilson in general in his movies.

seductive

James Bond, just that quiet, eye contact, suaveness about him. I like that whole typical cute, tall american high school sweetheart guy you see in cheesy movies. they just have to smile and look at girls to get them:

Mean Girls guy

Zach Efron

- I know this sounds lame or cheesy but I think its a part of what charm is, a smile and good EC. A tiny bit humble for what you really are. Its a part of being charming.

I cant think of any others though, any ideas?

And what about sexual threat guys? i cant think of any, you know guys who girls feel dangerous around yet safe.

Any comments are greatly appreciated.
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Today i was going to a direct approach but i forgot ENTIRELY about the clocks going back an hour, so i thought i was an hour late, didnt shower, shave or eat in the morning and wore whatever clothes i could find. Didnt feel very confident.


Anyway, the girl i have a little One-itis for well that went bad today, had a random bout of feeling low and depressed; attractive right. I know this doesnt help ANYTHING.

It just makes me want to skip all my lessons and go sarge, so i wont have to keep dealing with friendzone shit.

Which is a major motivation for me but i dont want to take it to the extreme.


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Now im taking sarging more seriously, on the days i do sarge im going to:

Forget people around me, and even run upto the girls i want to open. This will numb me to social pressure and create character/habit. I can open when other people are around, i mean its manch city centre but sometimes when you noticed someone really close i freeze.

Im going to stay infield longer, stay in the city for 5hours if i have to. I know you could say this is obssessive but in general i spend a lot of time lounging about doing nothing, may as well be productive.

Im going to start attempting direct, if only once or twice each time when im out.

Going to starting hooking baby! Fucking everytime i get depressed and feel like shit about this girl, i have a moment of clarity and motivation to get this under my belt.

Fucking throw the opinion out there, i worry if its weird but if its weird i wont see them again and i'll have learnt a lesson!!! IM NOT WEIRD its just the routine, if it is even a bit weird.

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recap

Open in higher social pressure, even run upto them so i dont lose girls i want.

Stay out LONGER, 3hours at least. Open every 10minutes.

Go Direct once or twice, even if i walk away after commenting on them.

Remember BL and EC, slow voice etc

Go for the hook and learn from what happens.


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On a side note, ive really started to learn from BLUEPRINT since ive gotten more serious and in uni being around larger groups of people and tried macking girls.

like how he says "put your personality out there and let the chips fall where they may". It really is about just being there and not 'wanting' anything. When you 'try' things to get her to like you, even a cocky line or kino'ing, it comes across as reactive, needy or just unattractive.

Starting to get better at understanding shit motherfuckers!!!

***Must become so good at this that i get the girls I WANT. The girls ive dreamed about.

Also i really want a girlfriend, i know it might be AFC from a needy point of view but i really love the idea of having someone to hold, cuddle, joke around with, tell secrets to and hear from them, just listen to about their day, have crazy mad, disgusting sex.

Just know each other really well and to have. How lame huh?

But i know ive got to become good with women in GENERAL, also get some sexual experience. Arbitrary number of 14, fuck 14 girls then looks for a relationship. Not definite but you get what i mean.

Who knows maybe my next lay could be a girl ill end up with

long post but gets it off my mind, theraputic