Between the bar and your place, there's a lot of time to kill, a lot of time for her to have second thoughts about what she's about to do. And in my experience, the most awkward moment is when she's walking in your place for the first time.

A certain amount of tension is great, but in this instance, there's usually too much tension. So here's a simple trick for making her relax:

Have her sit down somewhere in view of your wine collection (surely, you have a wine collection, right?), and pull out a bottle with a nice label. Turn it around and marvel at it, like it's some ancient, priceless artifact. Then say to her: "I've been saving this wine for a very special occasion."

Hold the silence for just a moment, and then casually put the wine back and say, "Soooo, you want a beer?"

If you do it right, she'll be amused and mildly offended. "I'm not a special occasion?"

And then you say, "I'm just messing with you. You need to relax, girl." Then build some more comfort before cranking up the tension again.

Play your cards properly BEFORE bringing her home and there would be no tension to fight neither LMR she could put up. I mean, think about it bro, did you really PICK her UP or simply started weaseling your way into her pants simply because she probably hasn't fucked someone in quite a while?

She might agree to come home with YOU but don't be stupid to think YOU did anything special if the girl's just wanting to get laid herself in the first place. It is in those cases where she's like "I want to fuck, but this guy's an idiot, but I want to fuck, but shit this guys an idiot" etcetc all over her head that she gets tense or puts any sort of LMR.

No, there's always some tension, unless she's a hooker or your girlfriend. So the point is to display mastery of that tension. To show that you can dial it up or dial it down.

I don't particularly care if she's one of those girls who knows what she wants and is going to maul me right when I close the door -- if so, that's fine. She'll be sending all sorts of body language signals, and we can skip the formalities.

But not all women are like that. Their anti-slut defense is up, and it's weird to be in the home of a complete stranger, away from her friends... etc. Plus, if you've had drinks, and you're driving back to your place, it's tough to keep her in that emotional / horny state, especially since you can't be looking in her eyes, lest you crash your car.

So you need some means for ramping the tension up or for releasing it. The post above is just one example of how you can do it.

There is a pretty simple solution to this problem. Spend a few extra bucks and get a taxi. It will give you the opportunity to look her in her eyes and continue the kino. Hell if you do it right you can build enough sexually chemistry that she does maul you when you walk in the door.

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That is really, really good! I haven't tried it yet, but it shows you're cool and chill, but she looks nervous. DHV![/quote]

No one is giving this any credit, Its a funny line and would work tremendously well in that situation which everyone - no matter what they are saying - must experience.

kudos!