I walked into the club 2 weeks ago and I met this girl friend of mine. She gave me a hug and her friend standing next to her also wanted to give me a hug as well even if we've never met before.(she was probably drunk) so I gave her a hug cuz she looked way hotter than my friend. All of sudden, she starts rubbing my face with her face.(not gonna lie, felt good cuz she was hot) and next thing you know, she started dancing so I took advantage of it: started grinding her. she accepted it and we've grinded each other for 30minutes. after 30min, she seemed she gotta go to the bathroom so I let her go. I couldn't find her since then.

but last weekend I saw her outside of the club waiting for the cab. I couldn't say nothing cuz I didn't know what I was supposed to say. you probably think I`m stupid but what I was thinking was "would that be creepy if I'd say "do you remember me? (who you just met and grinded your a$$ 2 weeks ago?)"


I have two questions that

1. what would you players say to her in this situation?

I mean, what's your number? would not be a good starter (too early)

how did you get to know my friend? would be kind of a buzzkill question.



my second question is very general one:

2. what would you players say to a girl after you danced with her (when the club gets closed)

it was nice grinding on you ? no.

there must be something!



please teach me gurus...

You got ditched. Going to the bathroom was no accident. I'd say you grinded her too long and things probably got a bit weird for her. What you should have done is escalated your kino. Touch her and make your way towards fingering her, then pull her.

However, because you did not do this, your best approach would have been something to tease her. I'd say something playful c&f like "Hey I need your opinion on something... I danced with this girl at the club the other night and feel completely used now. What should I tell her?" Do that with a smirk on her face and touch her at the same time so she knows you're joking (probably on the shoulder or arm). She'll know you're joking and respond either positively or a shit test. Your next line should be something like "I'm more than a piece of meat you know," then you can transition into an actual conversation and number close her.

thank you so much

..but that was only answer to my question #2

Does anybody can answer to my question #1?

depending on the club, pulling her could be tough since most have public restroom.

I would have let her grind, instead of escalating all on the dance floor, take breaks in between and built comfort, go back and dance, stop take break, built comfort. As your doing this, keep escalating further and further little by little. Somewhere in between is a good chance to number close.

After that, you could have pulled. In your situation, her friend was already your friend so it would have been easy.

If you didnt know her friend, it would be impossible to pull because her friend would have cockblocked. This is when your wing comes in use and builds comfort with her so she is down to come back.

That sounds tough indeed cause u dont wanna apologize for nothin and u dont wanna come back to her after so long still lookin for a girl to talk to
the best thing u can do right now is get an escort or a wingwomen to get her attention and start talking to her that way about what shes been doing etc