What is the best way to get my questions answered? Is there a procedure or some topics that get answered more then others or is it just the fact of creating a topic at the right time. I want to make sure I'm following all guide lines as i am new to the forum. Thnx in advanced.

Ask a question in this forum and if anyone can help i'm sure they'll try. Some times a busier than others but thats cool. Just ask away and be patient.

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Hello I'm a newbie in trouble. i introduced myself in the proper thread but now here is my story/2 phase question. IDK what type of keywords or topics to research to see if this is answered already.

Situation:

I meet this chick on a popular online site and we vibe and click. After exchanging #'s I swear i make all the right "player moves" without knowing them. Just being natural I guess, no game, all confidence. After I build a bond through text and convo she is mildly interested. So we meet. I show up 30 min. late, and the meet up is still a success because she goes from mildly interested to feeling me after 2 hours and 2 drinks. But I think one crucial mistake i made was not to kiss her, or i guess in your terms kiss close, after the meet. I know I could have but at this point i was very confident on a second outing. Now here's where things get ugly, I swear to you guys i lost her in a matter of 2 fucking days by making all the wrong moves, after a nice built attraction from maybe a couple of weeks. So 1 minor detail is that from the very beginning she would always take a long time to respond to text messages. I'm talking about 2 to 5 hrs at a time. But i was cool in the beginning. But later on it became annoying. Now here is where i lost her (i believe, but you may know different), One Friday i text her while at work, she don't respond during work hours. But later that night I'm annoyed so I text her something again, it was a tease and playful but i put some notable information in the text about me getting dressed about to go out. She responds and ask if i was going on a date? And this is where i start making all the wrong moves. I responded playfully that i was just hanging out but I'm sure i would pull something out of the bar. She responded playfully but in a "i don't care way" which hit a nerve in me because I knew she was feeling me. So she said it wouldn't bother her in a phone convo that we were having after the light text session I just explained. So I felt other wise and decided to test her theory. So no call back or text that night Wink. Now its Saturday she texts around noon saying something to the fact that "i hope you got someone which i think you did because you didn't call me later" I smile and say to myself "Game on". But little did I know I was the one losing lol. So no contact from me that Saturday not even a response. But what i noticed was she didn't contact me after her first text either which surprised me because it wasn't like that in the beginning stages. Sunday morning comes i send a text. No response. Sun. afternoon text #2 from me. No response. So after text #3 and 2 phone messages left (I know you don't have to say it), she respond. I know guys (chody behavior, I know but I couldn't even stop it because i was afraid i played the wrong card by igging her the day before). She responded with a couple of texts saying she wasn't ignoring me like i did her the day before and she was not "tripping" on the fact i ignored her and something to the effect of stop being pressed (because of the numerous message). But I gave her some bogus story about losing my phone and I wasn't being pressed i just didn't want a misunderstanding (in reality i was pressed i know). So I noticed I called and text her way too much as also trying to explain to her via phone convo that i lost my phone and wasn't ignoring her. Now my fear came in hard because we were scheduled for outing #2 that sun. but she made other plans because of my no contact that Sat. (silly me) lol. But here's the thing, after our convo Sun. We were supposed to do outing #2 that following Tues. (yesterday) so silly me thought I pulled a Houdini and was still in attraction phase. WRONG! I text her Mon. morning at work about the meet up and that was the last text ever. No response no meet up not even a text. Now I haven't contacted her since, but want to I admit. She knows i like her because i put my cards on the table and hid nothing (was real). But she's gone and I know why, and ultimately blame myself. But here is my 2 phase Question for you pros:

1. Is it done or can I somehow recover? Is my no contact/ignoring the right move now. But what do my ignoring matter if she's really no longer interested on top of a million other dudes being interested in her.

2. I have a small percentage of natural game, not on no ones level here but i can play when i want. But when i was feeling this chick i threw all game (except for when i was trying to test her) out the window and was real and upfront with her. Even showing her too much attention (i know its wrong). But the question is:
How is confidence really perceived in a man from a woman's perspective? Because i would think a man being real and up front would display confidence over a man acting indifferent and non interested by using game. I don't get it because if you are not afraid to lose you can show your hand but if you're afraid to lose you use tactics and technique to hide the fear. Am I wrong. Help me please figure it out. Thnx in advanced.

I am soooooo sorry for this long post but didn't know a short way to tell the details of my story.

1-Think of your question

2-Make a new post and ask your question. If some story can help others understand what your uncertainty is, make sure you add it.

3-Very long posts don't usually get a lot of responses. People are lazy and sometimes those stories go nowhere.

4-Use a catchy title.

5-Think of time zones. Are you in America? Are you in Europe? Asia?....etc. This could affect your response rate.

6- Do not be offensive.

7-Do not try to look for a specific answer. If you want honest opinions, don't try to direct people to agree with what you're thinking (this is related to people asking questions about their Oneitis and all that...)

8-Do not post comments or field reports in categories that don't correspond.

Hope it helps.

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