hi forum,

i have a problem with my best friend supposely.. he has changed quite a bit, ever since reading into pick up. it all started when his girlfriend broke up with him, and now according to him all women all cheaters, lairs, and just want money. he only works in the city because of the women.

my friend has this theory that being a cocky asshole = confidence, being arrogant is a very good thing all relating to confidence. iv'e seen him in the field he gets very mad at women, and you can see it in his body langage along with tonality right away... i have even witnessed him screaming at women calling them lairs when they said they have a boyfriend, and it even creeped me out.

when he drove away from my house one day, i found a fuckn paper of dirty pictures of MATURE naked women on my driveway.. he has no consideration anymore about anybody, and it shows when talking about the pull out of iraq he just said damn thats a shame could of used more oil, w/e guess some people & families will be happy.

ever since he has even henced the idea of this community he has changed, and in a very negative way.. to the point i cant even stand being around this kid anymore, hes so fucking immature.. wev'e been bros for a long time, but this has been going on for like a year now, and getting worse and worse..

p.s. theres no talking to this kid, hes extrememly stubborn.. and will now listen.

i havent been myself lately been working, my dad is very ill, and havne't really been going out.

I believe this is the general questions section, what is yours?

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Probably what to do about his friend's attitude problem.

lol attitude problem?, go get laid man..

and secondly, bro if u cant answer the question why even bother to post?.. go seek attention somewhere else kid

seriously i ask a simple question about my friend turning into the biggest prick of man kind following this whole cock/arrogant shit from david deanglo.. but u people probably wouldnt understand anything about friendship, loyalty, or respect.. i have known this kid for over 10 yrs, and thats the combined age of the two posters on top

There is little you can do when he's this stubborn. You can ignore but that probably isn't what you want.

i know P, but i feel .. you can say a little guilty about even bringing him into this community, and introducing him to mystery/david deangleo .. he really loved his david deangleo..

he has one of those personalties that takes shit to serious, and once he makes up his mind about something it sticks.. dont think ill ever show any friends the community of pua again

i guess you guys can take a lesson from me.. dont show your friends anything about pua, just let them find it on there own.. or sarge with other fellow pua memebers..

theres just alot of shit going on, it can really fuckup a friendship

First of all, what's with all this hostility OP ? I was just pointing out what your question might be, because, well, you haven't really asked one in your original post.

Second, your grip on the English language is between zero and none, reading your posts made me cringe. You can start by using proper punctuation.

Third, yes, your friend has an attitude problem. And so do you.

I'm assuming you guys are young (early 20s?). Not trying to knock you, it's just a thing more youngs guys tend to do or act. However, with that said, I had friend-girl older than me with stories of 40+ year old men buzzing her apt screaming from the outside, "I know your fucking someone!" When in reality, she just didn't want to go out with the guy again and was simply trying to get some sleep before work.

He's obviously pissed off about this break-up, but a negative attitude will not get you anywhere, and as you said, you go out with him and he acts like an ass and it reflects on you. Maybe if you put it into perspective it may help him. For example, a kid in my office (late 20s - oh, I'm 36 for reference) was all bummed out about this girl he was banging for three months screwed him over; long story short, she was a piece of trash, but he got some good sex for those months; however, he was SOO overly bummed about it; it was affecting his work. Around the same time, my wife actually left me! So I told him, "X, you need to snap out of it, I mean my wife, my relationship of the last 6 1/2 to almost 7 years is crumbling before my eyes and I'm in better shape right now then you." He started seeing it differently. My point, you gotta let him know it can be much worse.

Here's another thing you can do, but this is a little delicate in how you suggest it. I know you're not supposed to talk about yourself, but I think the reference will help as an example. I handled my divorce the best one could, but it wasn't without consquence. I wasn't going out yelling at random women, I just went into a sever depressive state as it got closer to the signing day; it was really BAD! I'm still going through it. I decided to see a Dr. about it (head Dr.) and she helped (ongoing), but she also suggested I start taking meds which kind of freaked me out - like I'm crazy or something. I'm still early in the process, but I'm already starting to see results and it should only get better (hopefully). If you're friend is this out of control and angry, I would suggest you talk him into talking to a professional, and you know what, perhaps being on some meds for a little while will help him - the chances of him being on them forever is slim to probably none. There is no reason why he should be that angry over something, when he looks back, was so trivial. Life is too short to dwell on BS. I hope your friend gets better, I can kind of empathize with him.

Best,

J

tony .. god sakes grow up, your worse than a crybaby.. and im not hostile at you.. your just sensitive

and J, thank you for your insightful post.

urm don't encourage his behaviour by making excuses for him, if he acts in a way that embarasses you tell him you're emabrassed and if he continues you'll find someone else to hang out with for the rest of the night

wash rinse repeat

if everyone around did this he'd (hopefully) soon learn

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