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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:04 am 
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It's because I never get the chance to express myself around the girl

My interactions are straight up

"Hey I'm rastafarian"
"Or what's up" "what's your name" "i'm rastafarian"

I say like 3-4 words. Then she talks, and talks, and talks, and talks, and talks. And because i'm not rude, i don't interrupt. I might say "oh yeah?" here and there but that's basically it. I try to get her to be quiet by escalating, grabbing her hand, bringing her closer for a hug. but she literally stops talking for a second before talking again.

And literally all i might have to do is qualify her once, if i do it she asks when i'm going back to my place. Then either she goes into boring interview mode on me or continues ranting.

I haven't been getting opportunities to express myself at all


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:30 am 
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I say like 3-4 words. Then she talks, and talks, and talks, and talks, and talks. And because i'm not rude, i don't interrupt. I might say "oh yeah?" here and there but that's basically it. I try to get her to be quiet by escalating, grabbing her hand, bringing her closer for a hug. but she literally stops talking for a second before talking again.
Talk louder, interrupt her, say something interesting or funny, use the tone of your voice as well as body language and hand gestures to heighten the interest in what you are saying so that she will stop and listen.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2011 11:23 am 
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Not having to talk much and still be able to get the interaction going sounds like the perfect case for an aspiring PUA. The problem is that it gets you nowhere. It's true that you should let women talk, but you definitely have to lead the conversation.

When you feel she's talking too much, change the subject. Ask for her opinion on a story (that you tell). If she starts asking the boring interview questions, call her out on it and change the subject for other stuff.

If she can't stop talking kiss her or something. Sometimes when I face a girl who talks too much, I get very close to her and say "are you nervous around me?" and look at her right in the eye. No blinking, with a slight smile. It creates a lot of sexual tension, and either they get a bit nervous in a good way (which gives you instantaneous power of the interaction) or it takes things to the next level if they keep looking into your eyes and say "I'm not nervous..."(kiss close right there). BAM.

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