This is for the OP? +1

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

those are not the kind of women I want, I want the slutty loose women, and I am not looking for marriage, just being a wild man that screws women left to right, srs

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

I have reason to post this thread. In high school (early on, 9th grade) and even in middle school I was called ugly by girls. In the 12th grade girls complimented me on my looks and said I was good looking because I had lost weight. Now the thing is I see all these guys in my area (mainly blacks and southern white guys) with six packs that get called attractive and I was curious to see where I ranked.

What I wanted to know MAINLY is that is the body of work there. Alright I know I have potential to go higher.

again I do not want that one lucky lady, I want to be the player and casanova, are my looks going to prevent me from being me?

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Work out
Eath Healthy
Take care of your face
Get a good hair cut
Read a book on style, here's a good one http://www.seducewithstyle.con.discount/
Get fashionable clothes...then youre better looking
and work on your body language

Im curious, hows this look working for you?

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Thanks,
Stan

"don't listen to this creeper reputation bullshit, girls like to get hit on / get attention, don't be afraid to do so, girls forgive advances, but they NEVER FORGIVE PUSSIES" - from pumpington

If this is how you want to look work out...

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Thanks,
Stan

"don't listen to this creeper reputation bullshit, girls like to get hit on / get attention, don't be afraid to do so, girls forgive advances, but they NEVER FORGIVE PUSSIES" - from pumpington

So get a 6 pack then

Just curious.. How old are you now? You sound like a little kid to me. Anyways, try working on losing your virginity first THEN becoming a "Casanova". An average guy(you) can become a player but needs to have a kick ass personality, good body language, ect... You need to be comfortable with yourself and women.

Others have pointed out your hand gestures in the photos, that right there shows me you are insecure. Just fix up your looks, gain some confidence and go get experience with women. Asking if you can be a Casanova can not be answered, but if your looks and body language stay the same, then no you can't become some master uber player.

I am amazed by how accurate these manga avatar pictures are... That is my number one thought when I read this post.

Apart from that... Here goes:

You already know what you can do to improve your looks! You do not need advice from other people, in fact, most of us know what we need to do. We all know that a new haircut can work wonders, and that a beard can make us look manlier, and that building muscles can improve your overall sexiness...

The number one problem people have is not WHAT they need to do but TO DO IT.

Even though you know how to man up and get yourself a masculine look you dont, for a simple reason. It does not feel right to you. That is all in your head.

Face it, nobody is gonna give you permission to change your apperance, nobody is gonna tell you that it is ok for you to change the way you dress, nobody is gonna approve your new beard. Rather, people may tell you you look stupid and trying to be someone youre not. That is a load of BS.

What they really mean is that you are trying to be someone that they dont think you are. You change and they are uncomfortable because suddenly you dont fit into that little box they placed you in. No longer the little nerdy guy but a man. Scary stuff.

Who are you? Are you whoever you want to be or are you whoever others want you to be. Probably you are not the one they want you to be, maybe you have outgrown that role years and years ago. Maybe you are supposed to be the new manly guy you wanna see in the mirror every morning. If you are true to yourself, maybe your looks does not reflect who you are anymore, maybe that is why you feel incongruent.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I turned 19 not too long ago brahs.

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Paramount. Are you looking for advice on what to change or are you hoping for us to give you reasons not to change? As Ezo said, go fucking do the suggestions, and repost pictures in a week or two so we can see you are making an active effort. Serious, GO, we wanna see the outcome, you have 10 days. If not Ezo will ban you

What part of it? The clothes? The Hair?

I tend to go with whatever I feel like doing on the night. Sometimes I wear a waistcoat, shirt and trousers. Sometimes a tight shirt and jeans. I have so many different styles of clothing. I also go to a rock/ metal club as well as normal chain nightclubs, I'll dress differently for each of those to suit the style.

Hair, beard and stuff just comes and goes. I'm pretty lazy so often I'll go a fair while without getting a haircut or shaving. I have ALWAYS had more success with shorter hair and with minimal stubble. People actually say I look weird when clean shaven though lmao.

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Can you feel my dick.. Fucking your mind..?

The persona in the picture...how did that work for you as far as women and reactions from people?

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Thanks,
Stan

"don't listen to this creeper reputation bullshit, girls like to get hit on / get attention, don't be afraid to do so, girls forgive advances, but they NEVER FORGIVE PUSSIES" - from pumpington

I have literally no idea what you're on about? This is just me being me lmao.

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Can you feel my dick.. Fucking your mind..?

Alright dude I'm going to give you a secret about looks .... GROW A MUSTACHE! I'm telling you, girls seem more intrigued by the porn stash look. I've had decent experience with it but I only pull it out on special occasions like HALLOWEEN! It will get you a better batting average.

Have any other you guys tried the porn stash look? I think it works great.