so this girl in my class has a crush on me...i think.
every time i say a stupid joke that's not even funny, she laughs.
this one time she didnt laugh but she said "your joke wasnt funny, but i still love you"
I didnt respond to that because i dont like her...she is not physically ugly...I am just not attracted to her.
I am just wondering, do you ever refuse sex?

Yea it happens.. some girls have had crushes on me but were just way too gross for me to consider fucking, regardless of how easy it would have been. Gotta have standards

Absolutely, it's not like you are in a competition to shag as many girls as you can regardless of whether you want to or not... Or at least I don't think you are.

If you are using your lay rate as a measure to determine your success as a PUA then you are on the verge of falling into an unfortunate trap. any hole is not a goal You should measure your worth and growth as a PUA by your ability to seduce the women that you innately want. Being a man slut with no standards wont get you anywhere.

However...

When I was younger and first getting into the seduction scene I pondered the same thing you are pondering now and after some inner searching I came to the conclusion that I might be suffering from a slight insecurity complex which is very common in men who are not used to having beautiful women pursue them.

Have you ever heard of the saying 'we want what we can not have?'

Like when we only feel attraction towards women who we feel do not want us and we believe any girl who does want us has low standards and is therefore unworthy.

I don't know whether this is the case with you or not but I do suggest that you ponder that yourself because it might lead to a significant breakthrough and re-evaluation of your approach to seduction (for the better).

If anyone reading this has ever wondered why they always seem to attract the wrong kind of girls, this is probably why.

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You definitely need to have your standards.

I have to say though, that if they're physically attractive I MAY still go for sex regardless of their personality as long as we both know that it's just sex, and no feelings should be hurt.

If I know I'm going to ruin someone emotionally by having "pity" sex with her then I refuse.

My 2 cents.

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Yep, all the time. I had a girl text me 'I'm horny' two night ago that I previously went out with for a couple dates and then stopped contacting. I never replied to her text.

If someone has some personal desire to plow every chick that they possibly can on the face of the Earth than do your thing, but I personally have standards.

As everyone says it's about standards, showing your not just some guy who'll do anyone anytime. It's DHV to reject some girls some time so don't think of it as a only bad thing to do.

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