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PostPosted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 10:14 pm 
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how do i get passed this phrase , is this a shit test?


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how do i get passed this phrase , is this a shit test?
If a girl is telling you that, probably there was something wrong in the approach (perhaps, you were going too fast).

Instead of finding a comeback for that phrase, work on how to avoid being told that kind of stuff in the first place.

It could be a shit test, but in most cases, it's a sign of disinterest. Calibration is needed in order to be able to tell whether she's saying it in a playful way or she wants you to go away.

A response could be "Have a good day..." ;)

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It could be a shit test and it could be not but you should not give a f*** because you should just be who you want. Sometimes girls just do it as a shit test but sometimes they really have no interest in seeing anyone. The best way to handle it would be to either make fun of it in a cocky way or ignore it. For example she said she is not interested in seeing anyone you should say something random like "Well i just wanted to explore a new world with you(and have strong eye contact till she laughs which she most probably will)" and laugh and continue right away with something else like "hey my name is joe whats your name etc...". And who cares what her response will be. Just be a guy who doesn't care what happens. Be the Alpha Male!

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Well that's probably not true, unless someone died in her family I sincerely doubt 'she is not interested in seeing anyone'. Most likely, she is just looking for a certain kind of guy that pushes the right buttons and in her opinion for whatever reason that guy aint you.

I'm not sure exactly what the circumstances were that led her to rejecting you and to be frank, the more detail/information you provide the better the quality of feedback/advice you will recieve.

So I'm going to do my best to provide you with some constructive advice based on two possible generic scenarios.

Scenario 1, you were out somewhere and you were trying to pick up a stranger.

You had a window of opportunity to attract her and to be perfectly blunt, you blew it. The only thing you can do from here on out is remove your emotions from the equation and logically analyse where you think you went wrong so you don't make the same mistake next time.

Remember that every rejection brings you one step closer to success, this isn't something to be disheartened about.

Scenario 2, you have known this girl for awhile platonically and you are trying to escalate your relationship into a sexual affair.

Depending on how much you value your current relationship (would you be willing to risk losing it) if you wanted to pursue a sexual affair further you would need to be unrelentless and completely self assured. If you knock at a door long enough it will open.

Do not confuse this with being annoying and bothersome but rather pursue other romantic options whilst maintaining a regular sexual interest in her, eventually her circumstances/outlook will change and she might reconsider at a later date, either way you will not be obsessing over her as much because you have other options and when she senses other female interest in you it will raise your value in her eyes.

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It's no more than a hidden way of saying you're not her type and not being her type is a hidden way of saying fuck off.
You can pass it with persistance but then your gaming skill will have to be very good. I'm guessing that's not yet the case with you so move on.


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Stop overthinking. It could mean anything. Maybe she means she doesn't want to DATE you because she just wants to have casual sex (that's how I would ALWAYS take it because you should take any excuse to accuse the girl of hitting on you, and always assume she wants to fuck you until conclusively proven otherwise!)

Her: "I'm not interested in seeing anyone right now"
You: "Oh yeah, me too. Have you just come out of a long relationship or something?"
Her: Yes / No
You: "Well I (also) just got out of a relationship myself so I'm definitely more about just seeing what's out there, getting to know people, taking things casually and then seeing if that person is real relationships material over time..."

at which point I could get into a conversation I enjoy having about my approach to dating and why polyamory is better whether you want casual flings or you want to eventually find that one right person.

I would NEVER take ANY sentence other than "fuck off" as a sign she's not interested. Keep the interaction going!

In this LR victory-from-the-jaws-of-defeat-vt96593.html I kept the interaction going despite the fact the girl said she had a partner and wasn't looking for anything at the moment. I ended up sleeping with her, dating her for 3 months, travelling to the US with her, and even though she's living in NY at the moment, she's coming to visit me next weekend. All because I didn't take what she said as a "shit test" and run away like a little bitch, but I just kept on going and figured out that she WAS interested.

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well why wouldn't guys take it seriously when girls say that 'am not interested in seeing anyone'? Sometimes it's just not the focus of our lives


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