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Last weekend I went 3 days to the bar/club, I got phone numbers from three girls.
The number close was pretty easy each time but I might closed to fast (after 2 min) next day I sent a text message to the three girls to ask how they are doing and how their weekend was. After a couple of text messages they just kinda ignored me.
Could anyone help me with this, because this happens to me every time, thank you.
Like you said, too fast and without building any comfort with them. Get the number, chat her up a bit more, and then leave the scene with an excuse that at least sounds reasonable.
If comfort is not built, she might feel buyers remorse.
Also, when you text a girl, try not to sound needy or too desperate about talking to them. Even if they respond right away, take your time to respond back. Always remember that you are a busy person with a lot of cool stuff going on in your life, so spending too much time texting is not a priority. This is the kind of mindset you should have in order to convey confidence and mystery over text messages.
So, in summary:
1- Build comfort and rapport by not exiting the initial encounter too quick, especially after you get the number.
2- Suggest fun things to do (a date) when you first meet women. Make the process of getting the number a way of communication in order for the two of you to go out later on. In other words, "you need the number in order to make plans for a date" (that's the attitude).
3- Show more confidence and your fun side when you text a woman for the first time. Instead of saying "Hi, how are you?" come up with more interesting messages like "Hey, it's (your name), the most interesting person you've met on a Thursday night, EVER!

haha" - If she doesn't respond in a positive way to a message like that, then you get an idea of what kind of person you're dealing with.
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