Elise

I'm curious, you mention 3 guys in this thread, how many have you dated or been involved with?

Do you consider yourself a female PUA?

I encountered 4 since Oct last year and dated 3. I am not a female PUA, as I don't try to get inspirations from the game or any PUA material, being suspicious of the effectiveness

I guess it's because lots of guys are reading PUA stuff these days lol.

Registered just to post my hilarious encounters with PUAs

Starting with the most recent one

I had one date recently with a guy and since then had been ignoring his text messages as I found myself not interested at all. Then I got a text from him yesterday:

The weirdest thing just happened......... I just saw a cat in the street that look exactly like you. Message me back quickly so I know a wizard hasn't turned you into a cat LOL

I laughed as it was a silly funny text, but did not want to reply because I can smell desperation from the content of the text. It's a dry joke, and It was obvious he was trying hard to get my attention, and desperate to resume contact
Then I thought this does not look right. Within 10 seconds since I raised my suspicions I googled it and was directed to a post on this page, a post about what to do if the girl is not replying your text messages. And apparently this text message is suggested by a senior PUA guy name Alex. Oh god this is so much more hilarious than the original joke.

Replied: This is line by line from PUA forum. I knew that line lol.

Unbelievably the guy replied: ha ha, knew this line already. I promise I give a line you never heard before next time. Hope you are well and good to hear from you again

Ok end of the story for this guy. I have to say as a girl even if I did not find out I would not see this line working to your advantage, so much desperation in it, don’t know why it was recommended

Elise

What i meant is are you a female player.

Do you devote alot of time to using flirtation and seduction for sexual conquests?

Do you feel confident competing with attractive women for desirable men using your seduction skills?

We're all friends here and we're here to learn and help each other, so i wanted to ask how many guys have you slept with? How many of those guys did you seduce (and include the guys that you maneuvered into seducing you).

How did you learn the skills of flirtation and seduction? For example by watching soap operas and reading romance novels.

I dont know about that, we got some pretty sneaky sneaky sneaky stuff youve never hear off

No I would not say that. I believe in darwinism, that men hunt, women choose, also I am merely attracted by anyone at first sight , so I don't try to seduce them upon meeting them. After a few dates if I still feel positive about the guy, I'd be tempted to get flirticious and seductive. And it always worked well. I dun think I have learnt it anywhere. Though interestingly enough, I do got inspired by bibliography on anne boleyn (Henry the 8th's second wife...)

Dislike guys, I think for female players, the focus of seduction is not on sex but on receiving attention

And personally I think for a female, the best way is to charm the guy and draw him close using her charm, and let him pursue her, rather than fight hard to get him. Why take the fun of hunting away from guys?

What is it about anne boleyn that you like?

When reading her biography do you like to fantasize about your self being her or being in some of her situations?

This is hilarious haha

Yes a strong impression indeed, but as a pathetic guy and his failed story was circulated among my girlfriends

I mentioned also that since then I went on ignoring his text. And would under no circumstances go out with him

What was so bad about him?

What is it about anne boleyn that you like?

When reading her biography do you like to fantasize about your self being her or being in some of her situations?

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I once witnessed two girls brutalize a guy for using a canned opener on them. He was this short little nerdy kind of guy in a hoody at a club I used to run, no idea how he got in. And they weren't even that good.

He delivered his line, and one of them started laughing, and told her friend he was using a line from that show with the "wanker in the stupid hats". They both laughed at him heaps. It was kind of cruel.

It's a risky business, you should ditch everything canned and just try to convey your real personality. Decreases the risk she'll ditch you later when she realises you aren't the guy she thought you were.

And I think there are mainly 3 types of ppl who get into this field. One is those having problems with the opposite sex, the other is the fake players who are not mentally ready for something serious because they don't feel like to settle down YET, eg, too young, life is not yet stable etc

And there are the true players who are the emotionally unavailable, they always pretend to be type 2 fake players, and they would always deny they are emotionally unavailable