I know hot to open a group. I know how to create attraction. I know how to build comfort. But I cannot K-close. That´s the biggest problem of people who start and get really good on creating attraction, but can´t close in proper conditions.

Here is my situation. I am studying in erasmus in Helsinki and I want to sarge on finnish girls, so I am not focusing in erasmus students, because I think finns are more beautiful. Within erasmus students I am fairly good treated as everybody think that I am a very friendly, nice, funny and positive guy. So when they see me, they always react well. Now, all students from my university party at the same place, we call it CASA. On fridays, wednesdays and saturdays we go there and have fun and I take those chances to open sets, people that I see in my university, but never talked to. Opening groups is not an easy task since everybody is dancing and the music is loud as hell. My strategy to open is to talk to each person in the group individually because it is impossible to open the group. I start with the boys first, then I go to the HBs. Now, my model when talking with my target follows style structure (http://www.seductiontuition.com/neil-st ... cture.html). In between I Kino them, but I don't receive that much IOIs and do not know why. I talk loud enough. I look into their eyes, but something is missing in the puzzle.

I got some chances with girls giving me IOIs. I remember that there were times where I became the center of attention of girls, but I simply was not able to K-close.

Bomba

Yeah if the interest is there - you will feel - you can either just dive in (if she rejects you act like it hasn't happened and possibly even try again immediatly or later.) or you can use Mystery's line "would you like to kiss me?"
Also: don't be afraid to take action. Just go for it when you think it's on.

if youre building attraction ( and youre sure about this ) then the only reason why you wouldnt be getting any success, as far as i can see , is youre own inability to isolate her and then escalate in a sexual way .

you need to make things happen cause , for the most part , shes not gona.

this is what i do

1) go direct . walk up to the set and just be honest with her. " hi , this is gona sounds weird as fuck but i saw you over there and ......hold it , eye contact etc.... i thought you looked stunning and wanted to find out if youre as cool as you look "

never get a bad reaction

2) just a little bit of chit chat and kino , just easy stuff to start. shake her hand and leave it to linger . if she holds your hand youre so in its actually painfull if you dont close. touch the small of her back , whisper in her ear. if youre doing this in a club should be easy enough to do.

3) the MOST IMPORTANT RULE EVER !!!! YOU MUST ISOLATE !!!!!!!!

i dont care how good you are you are shooting yourself in the foot if you dont get her on her own. put simply no girl wants to look like a slut so make it easy for her .
just say to her " i want to get a drink , keep me company " and take her hand . youve gotta lead buddy , always lead.

4) shockingly you never made it to the bar lol , just say " its too busy lets sit down for a minute " all clubs have these little bits where its a bit quiter and you can talk.
get her to sit next to you or preferentially on youre lap.

5) and now for my patented kiss close, its not 100% but i garuntee you it will make you feel like a don even if it doesnt work. the worst ive got is " god youre smooth " hence my name lol.

anyway its very easy just say " sorry , but ive wanted to do this all night " lean in and smell her neck.

lean out and say " wow , you smell amazing " and then do it again , only this time give her neck a little kiss. im yet to find a woman that doesnt like her neck being kissed.

finally lean back again, make some eye contact and go for it .

this is what i do and it works wonders mate

hopefully ive helped you buddy and remember " we only regret the things we DONT do "

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