Gents,

Been talking with this girl for about a month (on an off texting ect..) and I hung out with her 1 time before my day 2 (we went to dinner and then back to her place for movies..). I was upset with myself after the first date for not kissing her goodbye/goodnight bc all I really had to do was pull the trigger...and I wimped out. (Iv kiss closed a few times before and I have had multiple GFS... this should not have been an issue but obv it was.)

So my text game has been pretty flawless and getting great responses from this girl and after talking on the phone one night for over 2.5 hours she was hooked and wanted me to go visit her @ her school. Which leads me to day/date 2. I didnt know exactly what to expect from this girl but I had esclated the sexual tension via text/dirty talk to the highest of high... (she wanted to have phone sex/talk dirty and texted me the night before to make sure I brought condoms..ect..im being mild for many reasons but this girl was being very naughty via phone/text...lol). So I was pretty sure this was going to be pretty easy... even though we havnt even made out yet. So I drove down, vistited her, went to dinner, went to the bars, and got overly druck (we both did :[ ). There were a few points during the night where I prob shudda made out with her, but she was talking with her friends/introducing them to me ect... pretty much all night long.. not awhole lot of oppertunity). The next morning after I passed out in her bed and she passed out we just watched Football and then she had to leave. Not a whole lot of keno but some cuddling/messaging.. but nothing more. She left, gave me a huge hug, and then I left 2 mins after to go back home...

I feel like I am drifting into the "friend zone" bc of all the time spent talking/building comfert via phone/text and still nothing in reality has occured. I will put a large part of it on me (not pulling trigger ext.) but something just didnt feel right when we were hanging out... and i didnt want to do something "stupid" to ruin what we had (aka grab her/try to make out w her on a wim and I didnt want to just jump all over her and start trying to get in her pants...there just wasnt ever a really good time to do so??) Or maybe there was plenty of oppertunity and im just being a VAG??. I plan on talking to her and trying to get a read on what shes thinking...because before day 2 all we would talk about (literally via text/phone is f*^%ing each others brains out) and now in reality she didnt seem ready yet? Im kind of lost and upset that nothing happened this weekend...I saw it going a different way but maybe shes just looking for a relationship and not giving it up real quick? She has told me before that shes not the type to hit and run and that she wasnt sure what I was thinking ect.

Help me out here please I need tips/suggestions/comments/anything that I can use to get this1 back in my court (if needed) and or if you think by now (date 2) and after spending about 15 hours alone w this girl (not including the 20-30 some via text/phone calling over a month) shes not interested and im just a funny guy she can talk 2? Or am I still ok here and I just need to keep building up the comfert? Again we have only hung out twice now...ever....

Thanks guys!
Duke

Any comments/suggestions/anything would be great! thanks guys!

Next time you're alone with her, put your arms around her shoulder casually and say with some sort of surprise "Wow, you really have a lot of tension on your right/or left shoulder. When last did you get a massage?"
Her: Really? Yeah, I've been feeling tense in this region ... blah blah blah blah
Meanwhile you should be massaging said shoulder
You: You know what? Move
And you push her face down onto the couch or bed and start to massage her shoulders. Note, you need to say this like someone who knows what he's doing, otherwise it'll be obvious you're just doing it to get sex. It'll be good to have a backup story of how you learnt massage when you were into sports or something.

From there, massage and slowly work your way down, when it's obvious she's enjoying it, start kissing her neck, turn her head, kiss her, and let the rest take care of itself.

PS: This has worked twice for me

thanks for the comment! i tried calling her last night and she ignored all of my calls/texts... she has never not responded like this before and im now wondering since i didnt close now on day2 that she is now not interested?? leme kno whatcha guys think and what i should do now to get her to respond?!?!?

thx

so she asked you to have phone sex, asked you to make sure you had condoms for the night you got drunk, and you slept at her place but you made no move to even make out with her? you can't really ask for any more signals that a girl is into you, its up to you to escalate it, because nine times out of ten she wont. you know she wants you, so act that way. dont be afraid of physical contact, its only weird and awkward if your body language is awkward and weird. girls respond well to a guy in charge and confident in everything he does. she isnt calling you back which could mean she really wanted you to make a move that night and you might of lost your chance. i would wait on it, don't be too needy and try to get ahold of her a ton. maybe shoot her a text 3-4 days later nothing too much tho. if she starts responding i would say don't be so timid this time, go for what you both want. good luck man

This works wonders! something else you can try, when isolated learn some simple tricks on palm reading on youtube theres a couple videos just to know a little bit about a couple of the lines and meanings, you can start by doing this and move into doing a hand massage by "you look tense" and so on and just move your way up her arm to her back and then bassically just what you did! This has worked for me everytime i have been alone with a girl! BOOM

steel

thanks for the comment bud! i couldnt agree more... if I could go back in time i would have grab her face and started making out with her and being super dominate. I am more of a shy guy and this is KILLING me with women... i need to step out of my comfert zone and go for it... but im still always afraid of her being like....wtf....and saying no...

I hvnt tried to contact her the past few days... she hasnt contacted me either... but if I ever get a chance again this time I will seriously dominate this girl. If anyone else has comments please add! thx guys!

I know exactly what you mean. I've always been a shy guy and it's never got me anywhere, and after reading "Get laid or die trying" I see that Girls actually respond better to guys who are bold and don't care about outcomes.

If she says no, who gives a sh*t? If she says no, you just agree with her, back off a bit then try again. She'll eventually say yes. Remember, she really wants to say yes, you just have to give her a reason to.

Good luck with her when next you meet