I started dating this HB8 about 1Month ago,she's younger(18) than me (23) and she just broke up like a 2month ago with her 1st boyfriend (she stayed with him for 3years).

She is a friend of my syster, so i knew that she kinda found me cute,so i decided to take my chance...After 1week of texting i asked her for a date, it was pretty easy to KC her.But the day after she told me that she didn't want anything serious right now because of her recent breakup. I have to admit that it appears to me a pretty good news.Then during the following weeks we continued texting and every week i had my date and KC.The third date i made a big mistake... In my car,in front of her parents'house i told her that i was a great guy,not a playboy,that i really respect girls that kind of shit... Then the week later she started to send me less en less messages.Theses week-end she broke up our routine,pretexting that she had family from abroad in town this week,so that she prefered seeing them because long distance travel,didnt see them for a while etc...Further this week-end she started to forget answering my messages,so i basically stopped sending.Then this monday, i received a message saying that she was sorry but she had to step back because she wasn't feeling well with the situation,that she's still thinkin about the story with her ex,and she want to be honnest with me,blablabla and so i would be better to walk away each other on his side...


To be honnest i'm really pissed off about this, my goal was to FC her ,and i failed... Furthermore, even if it wasn't "serious" she kicked me out...

So i started to think about all of this,wondering why i had been kicked out...
I think that the "nice guys" positionning was a big mistake, she might have thought wow that guy is really a good one, and won't be comfortable with such a situation, he will think about relationship...
I know she's not seeing anymore her ex(thanks syster) so 2solutions :

1) she really feel bad because of her past relationship and just want to stand alone,and maybe i kinda scared her by being nice or allowed her to think that i soon or late i would like something more serious
2) She met someone else,and he has more value than me...


If you have your own opinion about the possible reasons of this sort of "break-up" - LJBF mix feel free to post it.