I go to the gym alot to workout, and I'm very focused about it. I tend to ignore practically everyone. And this actually makes alot of the girls like me for some reason as I see them checking me out through my periphery. I really don't care either. But lately I've stopped hitting clubs and would like to just go from one LTR to the next.

So there's this girl trainer that I have seen for the past year or so that "presents" herself when I'm in her field of view. I've never spoken to her but she's definitely grown on me. And quite frankly is distracting me as I lift.

The thing is it feels kind of awkward as I would like to speak to her but feel there is a barrier that I set up because of my stubbornness. I think she thinks that I blew her off by not returning eye contact and she won't look my direction when I look at her. But I see her looking at me when I have my back turned(lots of mirrors in the gym). It's frustrating as I just need her to look my direction so I can at least smile at her and give her signals.

The other thing is that she's a trainer, so she practically always has a client with her. And I don't know how to properly introduce myself without it being awkward. I've been going to this gym for a while and don't want to be known as a creep either.

I just want to get past this awkwardness of us not acknowledging each other.

Frame: Just wanna learn something from somebody who knows something bout it, WHILE the world is just my big funny secret.

Next time she's in the gym, ask her to show you a workout that works out whatever part of the body you're working on. tell her you don't wanna reach a plateau or whatever. If I was you, i'd intentionally do the form wrong so she has to touch you. kino with a comfortable smile when you're explaining to her what muscle group you focusin on. personal trainer's (i'm an aspiring trainer myself and already have my ace books) are very interested in the human body and the kinesiology of it. Think of some questions you wanna know about how the body moves or the hardest muscles to isolate. Don't forget, life is fun and too short to not flirt with all parts of it.

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