Got this HB8 that went to the same school as I did. Didnt really know eachother back then but she knew lotta my famz and we seen eachother round school and stuff. Recently started chattin her up on FB and she got really comfortable talking to me. The other week I was makin her crack up and she said many times to me that she was really enjoying our convo and that she wanted me to give me her #. As we were chatting the convo got sexual and she told me she could use some yelling screaming releasing!.....lol.. ..
I told her I could have her neighbors knowing my name in a minute and she asked when we could meetup. I told her I had a fight to go to tonight and to meet me there round 8pm. She Was DTF and said she couldnt wait!!!!.......I told her That I had a girl and just wanted her to know so that i was upfront form the start and she said That it actually worked out better for her this way anyway......no strings attached!...so it was Set!!.......that night came no call no show no text. I texted her and no response. I waited till monday and texted her that i thought she was interesting and fun and would like us to get to know eachother better and if not we should just be firends!!.....No Reply!!!! jus wondering wut u guys think?....think she felt bad last minute bout me havin a girl even if she said it was ok wit her?....

tough one

I think it would be better not to say something serious in reply text like "would like to get to know you better or maybe just be friends"

that itself contains an element of pressure and also you show you're still crawling for her even though she flaked on you!

I would have busted her balls, maybe called her a chicken or say something that paints me as kinda sexy while implying that she's not quite as "hot stuff" as she made out she was if she coudn't go ahead with out steamy agreement

abt always be testing her

those are my thoughts but I'm no expert so I'd be interested in what others have to say

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thx man it makes sense wut u say...and yeah i was in a bad frame of mind wen this whole thing happened so I didnt like at all how i handled it so thats why im asking! thx!!!

If she was HB8 no doubt she would have guys trying to sarge her all the time, and the thing is although you may of agreed up front about meeting another guy could have been right in front of her face who got in there.

I met a girl before who actually had plans for a guy to come round her place, but I somewhat gazumped him by arranging to meet her on the same day and showing up before he showed up, so she flaked him and well let's just leave the rest to your imagination

P.S Also when a girl arranges to meet for no strings, without sounding desperate its best to capatalise on it at the time it comes into subject, as if you arrange it for another day it puts too much pressure and expectation on it

yah bro i see!.......the convo was in the A.M. while she was workin and I was workin so I tried setting it up for that night But next time I might say!! HEY LETS do something crazy!....Lets both make up excuses and leave work NOW!......and see how that works ...any ideas on that?