Hey guys

It seems like i'm back to square one in regards with my AA,
I've approached 8 girls so far but i've lost that momentum
which is really shit cause I started off well (I have realised
my problem now and I know how to fix it for next time
so thank god that is a relief, I think too much and approach
too slow! I'm going back to just easing myself into
a mindset where I first became comfortable
the very first day I began so I can finally
kill this AA Epiphanies are cool)

Anyway, I went to a different mall this time and
tried approaching some girls (it was loaded with
9's and 10's so it was my lucky day) Long
story short I had SO many opportunities
flung my way this time and I felt just
down because I couldn't do it, I just
couldn't fucking do it (thank god
I realised my problem so I can
take care of it now!!)
When I got there I was really really
thirsty and this one coffee house makes
these fucking amazing fruit smoothies and I
I told myself that "GOD, I would NOT, I would NOT get
a fruit smoothie unless I approach a girl,
no matter how thirsty I am!"

I probably passed maybe 20 HB9's and 10's
that day and the more I thought about it
the worse it became so I left it for the
day and ended up getting my smoothie.
Now check this, I paid for the thing
(guiltily) with my last 20 bucks
and plus some small change
I had left over in my pocket, maybe
13 bucks give or take and I ended up
giving that money to the waiter for getting
me the smoothie quickly and I never
give tips,
and began heading for the
ticket machine to get out
of the mall.

I inserted
my card into the machine
and firstly it said "TRY AGAIN"
which was my first clue and I
got like a "Holy shit "
kind of reaction. I didn't see
it then but I think that was
my first clue that I should
have tried again before
leaving, I brushed it
aside and inserted
my ticket in and it said that I need to insert
10 bucks to pay for the time spent
there.

Get this, that 13 bucks that
I gave to that waiter, was supposed
to be for the ticket! I was then stuck
at the fucking mall for 2 hours until
a friend of mine could wire some
money into my account so I could
pay to get out...! In those 2 hours I was stuck
there by myself, just thinking
about how I wasted my
time and got that
guilty treat instead
of doing what I went to the mall to actually do.

I think because I broke my promise to myself
I paid the price for it and those 2 hours I had
that epiphany to just go back to square
one and start from where I was most
comfortable approaching... I think this happened
for a reason.

What do you think, coincidence or was
that some sort of karma for not
approaching? I'm going with
the latter on the karma on
this one

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

I think you're an idiot that went to the mall to pick up chicks and ended up drinking a smoothie alone because he couldn't go up to a single bitch and say "hello".

IT'S NO BIG DEAL. Plus, why do you choose the mall? Get inside a store and at least open them up with something related to the situation. You can't go up to someone who's already doing something, stop them out of the blue and start "chatting" them up. It's bullshit. Unless you've got initial attraction sparked up be it because they like your face or your body or whatever, chances are you'll just creep them out.

Walk around, search for IOIs, go open. Repeat.

Also, stop trying to look for a meaning behind everything. If you keep relating God to your pick-up failures man there's something really wrong going on inside your head.

A few quick tips I could give you. If you still have AA it might help to go to malls that are further away from your area. Knowing that you will most likely never see these people again when you're out will make the nerves easier to control. It also helps create some conversation. Lets say you ask someone for directions, and they answer you, you can reply back by saying that you're not from this part of town. The way she replies to that will give you IoI's or IoD's to work with.

8Strings The mall is an excellent source of daygame
as it is loaded with lots of attractive chicks especially
on the weekend, plus there are alot of malls
where I live so I'm not low on places to
practice. I've had success at the
malls before it's just that time
I wasn't in the right
headspace and I
just couldnt do
shit right.
What's wrong with looking for a meaning behind things? I don't
relate all my failures back to god it was just this one time that
got me thinking that because I broke my promise I paid a
small price. I'm not even a religious person I just thought
maybe karma got back at me because I do believe it
that stuff.
Yeah Jay Steer that's where I have been going recently to
malls far-ish away (the
one I went to is like 15km away so I thought that would
be a good idea since I'm not from that area and could
spark some conversation) I really love doing day
game but I also love the club vibe and I want
to get over this AA so badly dude. It kills me
knowing that I went out there and didn't go
for it, but shit man I'm not giving up, i'm
going back to where I started in the
first place. Atleast I've made some
approaches already so that counts
for something.

Atleast I've actually approached though, some
of my friends would never ever cold approach
a chick, they wouldn't even approach a chick
in a club so that just shows that I am that
much more coherent and I wanna change
myself an not just settle for any chick
that comes.

No matter how long this fucking takes I
wont quit.

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai