About Me

21 years old, living on a college campus. Big city and mall within a short drive, so those could provide other venues than college campus. Lots of HBs everywhere on campus (yet in weeks I've only kind-of approached a few times so far), often very nice/friendly people too. Would be a MPUA's heaven here.

My game experience: Pretty much 0, very little social experience as well. Nerd type, secluded as a kid and did not go to school due to overprotective parents. Don't worry though, I'm doing great academically (so at least I'm not stupid ). My problem is instead that I have comparatively little social experience and even less pickup experience.

I have been getting much better socially just due to general interaction with people. I can be normally conversational I think at this point, and I've learned to dress fairly well. My looks are not a problem except for an extra 10 pounds perhaps (I'm still going to the gym and losing some weight before I consider myself at a great state body-wise).

My main success was early on some years back, got an LTR, and that was great while it lasted. However I pretty much got lucky with that one, and it kept me from practicing game so I'm pretty much back to the drawing board. On the bright side, I had time to get good at sex and relationship stuff, but that's not a whole lot of help when I'm not even approaching.

What I Want

I am not a big fan of nightgame. Maybe partly because I can't dance at all, partly because I'm not (yet) very socially extroverted, and partly because nightgame isn't my "scene". If anything I'd go there to find a girl and be done with it, whereas the kinds of girls who go there would probably want to drag me out clubbing in an LTR when I don't want to go.

Ultimately, I want to be good at daygame, so nightgame is out of the picture for now. I want to be able to see a girl I find incredibly cute, go up to her, do some 'magic', and insta-date or close in some way -- ultimately leading to dates / sex.

Here is a really good example LR that perfectly illustrates what I want to be able to do:

pick-up-artist-forum. com / a-mall-pickup-to-a-public-fclose-vt98113 . html

^ remove spaces to get actual link (because I don't have 5 posts it didn't like me posting links, but as you can see this is not spam so I hope this is okay).

When I've reached that point and can do so fairly consistently, either to attain FB's or LTR's, I'll have reached my current long term goal.

Right now I'm looking for FB's mostly (I will wait until I settle down with a job before I consider LTR's again), but I don't think this distinction is particularly important at my stage of the game.

How I Need Help

My self analysis is simple: I'm simply not approaching girls, at all really. It stands to reason that to meet girls, you have to actually approach them

What I'm looking for is a sort of agenda, or training plan. Like weight lifting, I need a plan that I am going to hold myself to and make sure I do, so I continue to improve.

So, where do I start? What would be a good daily plan in terms of going out and approaching? What kind of approaches should I try, and how?

I'm pretty sure that with enough practice and persistence I could figure a lot out by myself and get some success, but that could take years for all I know. I'm hoping with the collective brilliance and experience of you guys, I'll be able to make progress much faster

This Thread

Please feel free to post any comments or suggestions or whatever you feel like here. I'll also be sure to post Field Reports when I actually go out and try something, but as of now I don't have much to report. I'm hoping I can figure out a good 'training plan' soon, after which I'll be posting lots of field reports (daily hopefully) to this Journal for anyone who's interested to comment, critique, and help me improve

I'm 20. I'll follow your paper
Don't worry about that, we were all AFC before become PUA !!
Weight is not important if you assumes yourself, and if you've self esteem and confiance !!
Moreover 10 pounds it's nothing !!

I'm practice game since a year, but all in my life in never KC and FC. That not a problem becose I got game. Each experiences are important !!
Pick up is easier when you want it !!

Of course not, Girls in NPU come for the same thing !! I ' m french but I think it's the same where you live.
Well, It just remains you to do SPU. First Time is important 'cose you break the ice to kill your limite. It'll be stressful but You 'll love it after =)
I can't access to it, but i saw public fclose and I maybe understood. No magic here you have to practice and practice again and again !!

As you wish, noone can say to you what is good for you !


-> SPU ; Street Pick Up : Take your balls and make dream us !!
List your goals, and cut them in small goals, make sure small are easy. You'll be proud of yourself when you scratch out one and ultime goals'll be more easier to validate.

Go in a street and pick up one HB, Talk to her about everything. Then when you'll win try it again to perfect you skill After that you can claim that you master SPU !!

And please, DON't TRY .... DO IT !!!!!

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