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I'm not saying it's not worth a topic. I'm saying you're making way to much of a fuzz about it in your head. Just go for it and chat with the girl. Openers mean nothing. Even when the period of time in which you can chat with her is very short they mean nothing. You can have equal chances on getting her number when you start with 'I do not like halloween." or "Halloween rhymes with drag queen, which I am not" or "I'd have the shop but I'll settle for your number". Four openers regarding your particular subject. It's all the same.
But don't see it as a personal attack. I know lots of people who think it's all about the opener while everybody knows that's just a very very tiny part of the game. The initial impression is non-verbal, not verbal.
I wish you the best of luck anywayz and be a date be with you on that halloween thing.
Yes dude.. OPENING means SHIT! Opening is not a skill of seduction or game what so ever.. you could be saying.. hi i like tigers my name is .... and still NC or FC any girl you want. You're just giving her an opportunity to meet you when you open.. if she's somehow interested she will respond wether you say Hi I like dolphins or hi what do you wear for halloween! Theres no fucking perfect opener so stop trying to figure out ways to open. If she's not interested at all she will tell you to fuck off even if you open with any opener in the world. By opening you're giving her a chance to meet a really cool guy.. if she doesnt like it.. fuck her why waste your time man! Thinking so much about an opener will only fuck your game up! Stop crying ... have a great body language and demonstrate value. Verbal game is almost 0 when it comes to non verbal game.. so approach your set and get it over with!
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