Now look, I don't mean to sound cocky, because I'm really, not, but I simply don't have a problem with attracting girls to me. Getting numbers is pretty easy to me. I had a waitress the other night follow me outside the restaurant and get her number. However, when it comes to actually doing something with her is where I fail miserably.

I'll think I'm doing good, we'll be talking for a while, flirting and so forth yet then it all just falls apart, I can't get her to return texts or phone calls. This has happened numerous times. Sometimes I think that I'm being too distant, because most of the time i am really distant, others I feel like I was too forward, I really don't know for sure.

step 1) go out during the day
step 2)approach a girl, tell her you approached her because you think she is cute, flirt with her
step 3)get her number with the promise of hanging out
step 4) text her immidiately that day, start out by ''getting to know her'' be normal and boring no need to flirt or anything, just be normal and actually show an interest in getting to know her, tease/flirt if she deserves it or it is a good spot, but go easy on it, don't try too hard
step 5)arrange a date after you think she is comfortable texting you and responds well to your texts
step 6)go on date
step 7)??????????
step 8 ) profit


rinse repeat, as many numbers and dates as you can, eventually you will grow the skills to lower the amount of numbers you need to make it happen

GOOD LUCK

good topic, same prob on dates sometimes
sometimes I get good chemistry and then its fucking easy! I'm on fire
it's manufacturing chemistry on a meet that I find hard

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How quickly do you start the "sexual attraction" I think I'm simply taking too long to say anything. I'm afraid of coming off as too pushy. I can get a girl comfortable talking to me, but then that's all we do, then we don't even do that.

You might try going fully direct a few times and trying to lead the convo to sex bro.

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