| Well... The beginning of my PUA journey started alone tonight... Tonight was suppose to be the night where I was suppose to go and try out my new found game which I have been studying for the last few weeks. Tonight was the night of the Pimps & Hoes Halloween ball which I was looking forward to since there would be more that like some scantily dressed women to try out my game on, but my wing decided that she was to tired to come out. So I was left two options, stay home again on a Saturday night and regret not having the balls to go out by myself, or suck it up and decide this would be the night I changed my life for the better....
11:00pm
I made up my mind! I was solo sarging tonight. The first time I have ever done this. Since my friend bailed out on me I decided not to go out the the pimps & Hoes ball, but instead go to some local bars which I am familiar with.
11:30pm
I walk in the a local bar by my place, and quickly scope out the place. Bingo! Mystery's 3 second rule. I spot my first set. It was a 7 set (HB6-HB8) sitting at a table with one open seat. PERFECT!! So of course I sit my ass down.
Me: So what in the world is the special occasion that all you girls are here.
HB7: bachelorette party.
Me: So who is the lucky gal.
HB7: That girl over there.
Within seconds I am talking to the 2 HB's right next to me. Building a little bit of rapport as I go. Turns out the bachelorette was really young (21) and getting married. I just so happened to read a story in Cosmo today about the average age of brides these days. So I go into my Cosmo opener, talking about why she is way young to be a bride compared to the average age of brides today. As soon as I said that I read Cosmo they all got instantly wet. Well from there they tried to build rapport with me asking my age, which I made them jump through a hoop and guess, along with my name. The whole time I was there they were throwing off IOI's all over the place. One of the girls next to me had her leg wrapped around mine the whole time I was there, which was pretty obvious she was into me, along with complementing on how hot I was. This is where I kind of stumbled. She was a HB6 or HB7 so I didnt want to say oh ya I think your hot too and complement her on her looks since she really wasnt my type. I should have rewarded her since she complemented me but I just couldnt think of a way at the time.
Anyways another one of the girls came over to me and started to talk to me, she reminded me of this girl that stalked me at college. So I asked her if she went to my college I used to go to and believe it or not she did! It wasn't the same girl but I ran my stalker girl routine and was hitting it off with her, when the Mother Hen came by and interrupted us. Turns out the mother hens brother was dating her, and she was pissed that I was getting close to her. Stumble number 2. I want sure what to do about mother hen and tried to be nice to her and tell her not to worry, that I wasnt interested in her friend, just wanted to catch up with a former college friend. This disarmed her enough to chat her up some more, but things started to get awkward so I told them that I was going to bounce and see if I knew anyone else at the bar.
Didnt get any number, but if I would have asked I could have easily got 3 of them, but again not my type, just wanted a challenge to overcome.
So bounced from there to the bowling alley bar next to my place. Most of the time its just locals and older people, but tonight there where quite a few of young people. So I buy a drink and walked into a 2 set. HB7's.
Me: Wow this is the most young people that I have seen at this bar, how you guys doing tonight.
HB: Good, ya we are with all the young people here.
Me: Cool, to bad you guys werent here yesterday (friday) this place was packed
HB: Todays saturday.
Me: I know but it was pretty crazy.
HB: Well I live pretty far away from here so I dont come here often. You live around here.
This is kind all that really happened. I should have started in on an opener or routine, but It was almost cold banter, it was hard to feel it, plus they werent my type HB8-HB10, so I excused myself to go make a song request.
Overall the second set I should have tried a little hard since it was just practice, but overall the night went well with my first solo sarging. It definitely helps if you the the venues quite well if you go alone.
If you have any question or comments I would love some insight. _________________ Ramsey
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