Hi, Guys.

I'm new to the PUA scene. I've recently been trying my luck on the streets of London, and it has not been going very well.

Basically, I am crashing and burning almost every time! You should see it; you'll laugh your head off!

To begin with, it takes me half the day just to muster the courage to make an approach. It's terrifying for me, because I suffer from social anxiety, a condition which I am gradually overcoming.

I usually approach ladies that are alone, as they walk along the street. I haven't the testes to approach groups yet.

Most of the time, I can't even get the lady to stop. She either completely ignores me or gives me an angry look, before pushing on.

In some instances, I have managed to get the lady to stop and engage me in a discussion. But I haven't managed to get any digits yet.

I went out today, alone. I always go out alone, because I don't want my friends to see me crash and burn. After spending most of the day trying to overcome my approach anxiety, I finally gathered enough guts to make a couple of approaches. As usual, they didn't go very well.

While walking home, I started to wish that I had someone with me, to give me guidance and help me to increase my confidence. With that in mind, I joined this forum.

Do you guys ever get together and go "sarging" in London? If so, can I come? I just need to see a couple of live demos.

Well it's not so bad. In the first time when I went out in London for sarging in took me literally 6 hours before I made first approach. And if you not approaching soon again you'll stuck in same phrase. Practise make it perfect. Think not only what you're saying but also how you're saying it. Try to fake confidence. And finnaly try to find a wingman

Are you walking with your cock outside of your pants, or blinking yours eye incessantly as you approach them?

This is how everyone starts out, don't worry about it, just keep doing your thing. Soon you will get your first number close, beleive me, just keep practicing and educate yourself.

Make sure you dress well and look as good as you can. Have some canned openers and a few lines ready and stick with them. It's much easier if you use the same scenario over and over.

Check this video out, this might give you a little inspiration:

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The wingman helps as, if they reject you, the wingman gives you someone to go and laugh with rather than just standing there looking like a tool.

Try this forum for meeting guys for sarging in london http://www.thelss.com/

Thanks for the help, guys. I appreciate your replies.

To be fair im from London aswell and i find London girls really Stuck up and snobby or just plain rude (most not all) ha...everytime ive gotten on well with girls has been girls visiting London for clubbing, or down here because of work/uni.
I dont think you doing anything wrong I just think its alot harder and intimidating place to play in!

It's not supposed to be easy to hunt for women. Keep at it and you'll catch one eventually.

Or learn how to meet women easily and naturally.

Because it simply doesn't have to be difficult.

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I think it is all about getting in to state just to get rid of the initial approach anxiety. So next time you sarge in town, try and start up conversations with randoms - e.g. a bit of light hearted banter with the person you buy your train tickets from or the staff in a cafe where you to have a break and get in the mood for it. And to get over initial anxiety just ask the first random attractive girl you see what the time is or ask for directions somewhere. And if as a bonus you can transition with some quick witted humour, that can get you in the right frame so that next time you do see someone one the streets you fancy then hopefully you can approach with more confidence. Worth a try.

Don't worry about your friends seeing you crash and burn. You will be their envy just because you have the guts to approach beautiful women. Even if your just asking about arbitrary stuff like what's the time.

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