Hi guys, i need some advice

In short: I was at an all-day seminar with a few cute girls in the pack and I tried to make a few alpha displays. A very nice girl noticed and gave me looks later. At night there was a party, I danced with her, she was receptive, I dropped a few lines and kissed her. We were then making out furiously in a corner, went dancing a bit and repeat. Hugging, kissing, she was starting to get hot and aggressive. Going further was not an option so we kissed goodnight later.

Next day i invited her for coffee, she said yes, we met. The chat was nice, then I try to kiss her and she goes 'Im not looking for this'. As in not looking for a relationship. She also said something that sounded like a bad breakup in the near past.

I guess I read her wrong, I was convinced she was looking for something serious (thats why I dropped some obvious signs that im serious also) but she might have only wanted to have some fun. I was too surprised/confused to find out more. I did get a sweet kiss goodbye 'to remember'.

So, what to do now? I've left her alone for 5 days. There are agruments to leave her alone and to 'put pressure' on her to go out with me again, etc.

- she is awesome, a total package. My dream girl. Those eyes......
- she is 19 (20 in two months), I'm 28.

I need help

Well, putting pressure on her is the wrong way to think about it. However I would recommend waiting another solid week (atleast), only talking to her if she talks to you first.. keeping your responses short and low investment.. Tell her you dont believe that men and women can truly be just friends. After another week or so has gone by, get a hold of her and start from square 1 building attraction and comfort etc, and never mention the fact that she friend zoned you period, just pretend it didnt happen. That's your best shot.