they say girls dont like it when someone looks at the sexually. They like a gentleman, who doesnt look at them as a sexual object. they want someone who looks at them as a person.

every time i talk to a girl, there is a sexual reason behind it. i dont care what she thinks of the weather. i dont know where she bought her shoes from.
so this means to get a girl to like me, I shouldnt talk to her. i should ignore her. this way, she will think i am not looking at her sexually and be attracted to me.

but it doesnt work that way, believe me i have tried it.
so why this paradox? do girls want us to look at them sexually or not?

Look...girls like sex as much or even MORE than guys.They just never admit it and that's the power they have over us.

You just have to pretend to not want her in a sexual way until it's ok to admit you do...if that makes any sense.

In short, and also the answer to "who lies more" women lie a lot.

Be sexual or be friends. Make your choice.

this is your reality, bring value to that area first, and watch how the others follow, talk about sex congruently without some sort of agenda, and all of a sudden everyone else talks about sex, if you are open and non judgemental, then others will follow suite as long as your opinion and state are strong in your belief that this is ok, it will be ok

women like gentlemen?, what about the badboy that is openly sexual?

It is not that they dont want guys to look at them sexually.

They do not want YOU to look at them sexually.

Basically, they want to get sexy looks from the guys they consider suitable partners, if you get a comment like that, you are not one of them.

Girls dont always mean what they say, especially, they say what can get them out off an annoying situation with minimum effort. They have no interest of telling you the truth or teaching you how to behave, only to get rid of you.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I make girls agree with me that the ones who percieve the nymphos as ordinary sluts and themselves as holy beans are hypocrites. It's all framing. Girls love sex and they love to talk about it. Check every fucking women's magazine. It's all about sex.
It's what Ezo says, you're game isn't probably at the level where women associate you with sex so it's a no go for them to discuss. You can overcome this by maintaining your cool while opening the sex topic.

It's mainly how you talk about it. When you talk about like "Is reverse cowboy your favorite too? Yea whatevs, yesterday I was walking with my dog blablabla... Geez that women has got some awesome boobs. Would love to feel them up. Well anywayz back to my dog." When it's no big deal to you, it isn't for them.