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PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 2:35 am 
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Ok so throughout the semester this FINEass girl has been givin me looks and i have exchanged them back, and i couldn't build up the balls to talk to her until today. As we are leaving class i notice she caught up to me ( think she may have done this on purpose). At first i didn't say anything but i made her laugh when we got to the stairs, but and she replied, sounded interested, and i laughed but had nothing to say back. We walked next to each other until she got to her next class, my class was a little further down, and i complimented her on her project presentation and told her id see her later. It wasn't extremely awkward, as a matter of fact i didn't feel awkward at all, i just didnt have shit to say and it was a pretty quiet conversation. Did i blow it? What should ido next class?


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 3:07 am 
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approach her next time you see her and start a some bullshit class related conversation. Make it short and ask for her number so you can text her if you have a question about class.

The thing with this situation is that you already are exposed, if not overexposed, to her via looks in class and other jack assery so there isnt a lot of need to try to build attraction before going for the number close, as she either likes you now or she doesn't. So keep yoru convo short so you don't blow whatever attraction she has for you from giving you goofy eyes.

As a side note, at some point your gonna have to grab sack with these chicks and just approach whether you have good material to open or not. The sooner you start aggressively opening chicks the better off your going to be in the long run.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2011 2:56 pm 
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always have a few stupid ideas for funny conversations in case there is a silence that is awkward for too long ("what do you prefer cats or dogs?" is a favourite of mine because I can make fun of them playfully if they say dogs about how they just want an animal to suck up and kiss their butt)

I don't think youve blown it it seems like she's interesting but too many gaps and she'll think you're not very assertive (and she'll be right)

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2011 7:46 pm 
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You over analyze everything you said, what happened, what she said etc.. If you do that, you build all those scenarios in your head and women feel that and in most cases it doesn`t work out well...it`s some sort of a DLV.
Just act natural, but in PUA way of course. You are the PRIZE.. IOI for IOI, IOD for IOD.. Be confident and so on.. Microcalibrate. :) If she shows interest, you don`t react too much, bcs this happens to you all the time(that women are showing interest at you) but you reward afkors :) Good luck :)

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