Hey so there's this girl at my school. She's something sort of popular. No. Popular is an understatement. She works for student life so like everyone knows her. Really pretty. Really outgoing. Super nice. Super sweet. Super smart. Also, I think her family is super rich. But that last one makes me sound shallow. Maybe I am. I don't know. She's 21. Just turned recently. Like less than a month ago. Went to Vegas for her birthday.

Anyways, I first met her during summer quarter when she was in one of my classes. At the time I was looking to drop a class but I had no idea what to take. She suggested I sign up with her in one of her other classes. I did. I sat next to her every day. And nothing. I was too scared! Too intimidated. Also I wasn't sure if she had a boyfriend. Apparently she was friends with my cousin and was dating my cousin's friend at the time. But I was still intimidated. Then summer quarter ended. And on the last day, I asked her "Wanna hang out sometime?" and she said "Sure." but I never followed up because I was too scared.

Let this be a lesson to all you new ones. Don't be too scared for the current 10 because if you don't do anything for this 10 then the next 10 you will still be scared! So I really want to do something for this one and who knows it might go somewhere. Although, that's like AFC talk. It should be "OF COURSE IT'S GOING SOMEWHERE AMAZING!"

But yah, absolutely a 10. I don't know if a neg would do anything now that I've known her for a while. It would just seem kind of mean at this point.

I was thinking about saying something along the lines of "Hey, do you have a boyfriend?" and if the answer is no then I'll follow up with "You doing anything on Sunday? Let's get coffee. You still owe me." I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a boyfriend. The guy friends who work with her who I at first thought were her boyfriend, in the pictures with them, it seems like they're not boyfriend/girlfriend. There's several guy friends too. So..... I gotta worry about those guys even when I do get together with her. Man.. I'm trying to imagine scenarios and all outcomes are not good for me. Fuck it! I'm doing something! The problem with this is that I have to get her alone which she never is. Every time I've seen her so far on campus she's always with a group of people. So all I can get is just a "Hey". I do have her number and email and Facebook.

Thoughts?

Good article sir

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Totally not what I meant....

When was the last time you've talked physically? I wouldn't ask if she has a boyfriend either. It's good to think about outcomes and scenarios but you have to act and your not going to have a script everytime you talk to this girl, no matter how you over think it. That was one of my problems and then I learned. It's not what you say it's how you say it.

You say she is pretty popular, so you probably won't get a chance to talk by herself then. I wouldn't say you blew it but you had a good chance in the classroom since you both were together. I would take it slow about asking her out depending on how long ago you physically talked to her. You don't want to rush asking a girl out all the time, it comes off needy and seems like you have nothing else to do besides always wanting to hang out with her.

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coupe of things

1) you dont ask her out... you hang out with her and then escalate on the first time your together...its must be physical escalation on the first time

2) dont ask her if she has a bf...assume she doesnt and she is dying for you to ask her out....you say shes sweet and ice...girls like that seem intimidating but deep down they are tired of being put on a pedastle and they want to be treated "like shit"

3) you have higher value than her....ALWAYS...no matter what you have higher value

4) lastly...shes just another girl...make her jelous by hanging out with other chicks and letting her know about it...do what you think is right and if it didnt work out you have to say to yourself what we learn from Jay z.....Im on to the next !!!

Find a common interest, then set up a date based on that piece of information.

You: So what do you do for fun?
Her: Smoking bud
You: For real? I was actually planning on picking up a fat sack of indo this weekend. Pitch on a blunt?

Bagging HB's is easier than you think. Why? Because there is VERY little competition, with most guys too fucked up with anxiety approach to pose any real threat. Even HB's are ALWAYS looking for the next boyfriend. Even THEY see the grass as being greener on the other side so even if she does have a boyfriend, that is nothing more than speed bump...okay enough of the philosophy what do you do.

From the little you have told me, I would say to come up with some Alcohol based event...look for a local wine tasting class, look for some restaurant or bar that is doing flights of wine, scotch or beers...Or...invent some story where you need her assistance to help you....(My cousin is getting married and I am in charge of buying the wine for his rehearsal dinner...I could use a girl's opinion (remember chicks LOVE to give their opinion on EVERYTHING) on some of the wines I am sampling... this chick went to VEGAS for God's sake ...she must like to drink....

Anyway...pick like 2 to 4 wines....(blind taste test them to make it fun) give her a pad and pencil and compare notes....

She will LOVE this...

Trust me...I grew up outside of Washington DC and used this ruse on all kinds of HB debutantes....it is a combination of being worldly, mysterious and fun...

Here are a few lines I used to get a laugh out of these chicks when I tasted a wine...it is SO FULL OF SHIT...they will laugh.

look at the wine, study it....sample the bouquet then say (with a straight face)

subtly demure, yet playfully articulate
poignant but not overstated

or..pretending u hate it

OH OH...an absolute BARBARISM

anyway...I can recommend some pretty good wines in the 10 to 20 dollar range that are very good wines....unless of course you are loaded in which case I can recommend some in the 50 to 100 range...

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dude do yourself a favour and get a pu system for yourself. You should know how to open, how to attract, how to calibrate and all that shit. Buy a good product and spend some time with that. If you cant buy then download from any filehosting website for free.
If you dont do that, you will always be confused by conflicting advice

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PU system? Can you link me? I think I know how to open. Universal opener "Hi" is really good. Then I lead into something class related usually. I'm not sure how to attract or calibrate yet.

yup pu system. Pu system gives you guidelines and explains how things work. Its gives you an overall understanding of seduction process and that improves your calibration too. If you want me to guide you, pm me and i will send you a link in the reply where you can download a book for free (its not free by the author). I am not going to post here because i dont want to publicily share that information

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@Gifted1ne Actually, yesterday when I was driving Korean Girl home, I drove past her and said Hi __hername__ and she said hi back and I drove away. I was thinking about sending her random text messages to get her opinion and build rapport and comfort that way. Thoughts?

@staplemaster "you have higher value than her....ALWAYS...no matter what you have higher value" I like that, thanks!

@Don Marijuan How do I find common interest with her? I don't smoke anything, sorry.

@atomicglow Oh I absolutely agree. I'm currently carpooling with this HB right now. Probably a 10. I was talking with her yesterday and I was like can I talk real talk with you as in say it like it is? And she said sure she's that kind of person. No BS. etc. And I told her about how I'm looking for a girl and whatnot and she referred to the first time we met. It was around the beginning of the time when I was first implementing PUA stuff. At the time, I was working on talking to girls within 3secs. She said she was really impressed that I talked to her since most guys don't talk to her at all. So yah, I absolutely agree.

However, alcohol based. I can't drink alcohol at all. I have a very low tolerance as in I take one shot and I'm passed out even though there is food in me. It's bad. Pretty sure I'm allergic. So alcohol is out. Got any other ideas?

So yesterday, I ran into her in the halls and we got to talking. And how she's graduating this quarter and what her plans were then. She said she liked my hair but I didn't do anything special to my hair. I did however wear my new clothes I got from black friday. All black. It wasn't gothic or anything like that, just looked nice because it all matched. Anyways, I was thinking about sending her a text. Something along the lines of 'Have you ever had pho? Let's get some on Saturday.' Thoughts?