Okay guys. I need help escaping the fzone.
I met this girl 2 months ago or so. We started out as friends, because she was a part of a friendgroup i recently came into. We started talking and smsing alot over phone. In the beginning i thought it was only friends, but suddenly her SMS'es started getting more uhm flirty. she wrote me like(Stop being so sweet you are gonna give me diabetes, Im at a party where all guys are lame, why arent you here so i can dance and talk with you, etc) So i thought alright, she might be interested, so i started getting my game on. We ended up on a movie date, which was alright didnt k-close(im still fairly new to the game).
A week after our date, i kinda told her, that i started liking her more then what i should(this was stupid i know that, but i tried it before with a girl and it worked wonders+ i didnt want to make things weird in the group). She told me, that she was abit confused, about things right now and she kinda was interested in another guy. I was like alright(didnt really bother me) but then 2 days after i told her, i was down town and get a call from her, think it was 2 in the night or something like that. She asked if i didnt wanna come over. I was drunk, so sure, i took a cab to her place. We talked and ended up kissing a couple of times.
The day after we didnt talk, 2 days after she contacted me telling me. That we Shoulden have kissed, she really likes me, but the "special" thing is not there(she bullshitted me with, she wished it was, but isnt) and the most annoying thing is, she told me, that i should not try anything again(come on, you called me, at 2 in the night, you think im gonna come over for a cup of Coffee).
I just think its bull, that she knows i like her and then 2 days after, in the middle of the night, where im drunk, pretty sure she was to. Calls me and ask me to come over.
Thats not fair towards me. Anyway, is there any way i can escape this f-zone and get her?. Its not like that im stuck on her or sth like that, i just hate giving up(its like a "game" i wanna win, she cant win haha) I'm not stopping my life, because she told me this. Already had 2 dates since she told me it.
Sorry for typos(english is only my 2nd language and the long text.

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if you are in a friend zone with a girl just use her as a pivot or wing to get other girls but not girlfriends if you know what i mean.

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alright i think i know what you mean. Why do i want her to "set" me up with other girls?
Ah yeah there is a part on friday, where we both have been invited I been thinking about bailing out. Since i dont know how, i react if i she her and maybe she her with another man..
But i probably go, just to show her. that im not affected by anything and just have a good time.
Any suggestion on how i should deal with that party?

1) Forget about her, concentrate on other things (whatever you have in your life going on, focus on that)

2) Get out of the house, go on drinks with your other friends, or even better girl-friends

3) Start sarging

4) When you realize you stopped thinking about her, and something reminds you of her, contact her and say:" Hey, I just saw ______, and it reminded me of you"

5) Game her as you would game a normal girl because without caring, your game will improve radically.



P.S. If you don't know how to game a girl, well, you better learn it, and then make a topic about how to start with it or whatever....

And bro, keep us posted, good luck...

If a girl tells you she isn't interested like that in you about a kiss, just tell her it was a friendship kiss
Works wonders, even though the logic behind that is severly flawed......then again logic is overrated

Thanks you 2. Im gonna go out and forget about her(Just difficult since, she is more or less SMS me everyday or fb msg me..). Yeah i know how to game a girl. My game just decrease drastically when i get feelings for a girl.
Anyway you got any suggestion about, how i should handle the party we are both attending?
Of course i keep you updated.
But thanks to everyone, nice to see that, a new member can get help so easy and quick.

Just be talkative. Talk to people. If you see an IOI from some girl, game her, it will be so much easier to game a girl that glances at you from time to time, or that approaches you. Just be the life of the party, dance, talk, and drink a little (a little, don't get wasted). Don't ever allow yourself to stand on one place and talk with same people for whole night...


And pimp yourself out. What do you usually wear?

I'll give you tonight an easy way to win a drink from a girl cause I don't have much time now...
We'll be in touch....

Alright that was my plan anyway;)! (but how should i "play" towards her, the girl who i'm actually trying to game.?)A yeah another thing. I dont get about her. I froze her out for a couple of days(where i didnt write to her at all/because she went home to her own country for a quick visit where she gave me, her homecountry number, if i wanted to chat) and then she starts contact, we chat a bit, i end up calling her. And we chat for an hour or so. After that. I freeze her out again for the reminding of the day. The next day, she SMS'es me(saying she ran by some people from my contry) . For me its difficult freezing her more out, w/o me just completely ignoring her SMS'es. Any thoughts?
Uhm i usually wear cardigans or shirts with jeans.
But i recently got some nice fed back when i started wearing open shirts with white t-shirts under and wearing pull overs and ofc my hat. Girls in my city, dig the hat, only gotten positive IOI while wearing it;)

a little update. We went out Wednesday me her and 5 friends of ours. Got a bit drunk and started talking. In the meanwhile i been doing a lot of thinking and i came up with. That shes to good of a friend, to lose because of a relationship. So i kinda told her, that I started moving on and already been on a date with another girl(which i had).
She asked how she was, and i just replied casually, shes okay.
Anyway Thursday we talked and then she started saying, that she needed some distance from me, because of my feelings towards her. But i already told her, that i valued our friendship more then my feelings for her and that was why, i dated other girls. Anyway to sum it up, she asked me to give her some distance. Because there was to much going on in her life right now and she could not handle me having feelings for her. IDK why she is pushing me away, when i made it kinda clear, that i am moving on. We have not had any contact since then. I really dont know, what to do now..

Well I had pretty much the same problem.. First thing you need to do is to freeze-out for certain amount of time (show less interest, don`t text her except she texts you but be careful in responses). Freeze out for like 2 weeks or smth like that
2. You need jealousy plotline in the meanwhile.. Make sure she˙s sees you meeting and seeing other women.. But it`s mustn`t come out like you are trying to proove her smth or make her jealous.. Accidental.
3. After that, Reframe.. You text her or tell her it`s been a while since you talked and you want to see her or smth like that.. And you game her then.. Or as i said, you reframe yourself, be a PUA
That˙s how i did it and it worked perfect

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Okay thanks a lot, i try the freeze out,but still replying if she contact me.
But im glad that it worked for you, lets hope i have the same "luck" as you;)!

Yes, do that and don`t forget about the jealousy plotline Reply yes, but show much less interest in those replies comparing to the ussual
Fingers crossed, tell me how it went

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Um a little question. Right now i think we are both "freezing" out each others. It's like if we are both on FB chat on the same time, we both log off. If we see each other at school, we just quickly have eye contact and then nothing. So hm i dont know if its back firing haha. But then again,she did tell me. After me telling her, that i been out on a date with another girl, that she needed some space. hm. Girls:P
Anyway just a little update/question:)