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PostPosted: Wed Oct 19, 2011 8:47 am 
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Hi guys,


I've got a serious problem with my game. This is going to be a long post, so please bear with me.

Before I start selecting my targets, and cracking on the babes I really want, I like to 'warm up' and build some confidence. The best way to do this I find, is by either listening to the Rocky theme on my ipod, or opening up less attractive women to feel the vibe.

I decided to go sarging after work today....

I see a 2 set lining up for a drink. I'd say one of them is a 7/10, and her friend was about a 6.5/10. I tried the 'who lies more, men or women' line, and started chatting. I got bored, as they seemed prettyed easy, and I moved onto another bird who about a 7.5/10, and asked what she thought my shirt (it was a bright orange shirt) and we hit it off quite well, turns out she is a freelance photographer for a fashion magazine. I cut it short, now that I was on fire. Time to open some babes that actually appeal to me!

There was this brunette chick, in the outdoor area. She was super hot, couldn’t of been less than 250 pounds. She had 3 smaller friends sort of orbiting around her, but I was confident enough to approach the entire group, so I walked over there and asked them if they knew any great karaoke bars in the area. The target just ignores me, while the smaller women bore me with their monotonous small talk.

I disengage, and from a mile away, I saw this other smoking hot babe who was standing in the corner. She was a red head, but had slightly oriental features, she reminded me of a cute sumo wrestler. I asked if she usually came her alone, and she’s like ‘well my boyfriend will be here any second now’. I walked away, waited for a bit, and she was soon accompanied by a female friend (it was obvious she made that ‘boyfriend’ up).

On the way out i spotted these 2 cute chicks slowly slumping there way out of burger king. I tried the karaoke bar line again, and they just pretended like I didn't exist, and nearly walked over me.

Why does this happen every time i crack onto larger women? BBW is my kinda scene, yet any woman over 180 pounds seems to just hate my guts!
I know I’ve got game, as I can open up normal chicks, and I use the exact same approach for my targets, so what am I doing wrong? Is it because they know I’ve got the hots for them, and I’m slightly more nervous in their company, which is throwing me off? HELP!


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 19, 2011 1:05 pm 
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So you are into the big girls eh?? Well my friend, if the post is real and it's not some strange troll thread, the reason your game doesn't work is because big girls normally have low self esteem. Atleast in the area of dating men.

My advice would be approach single targets - while in groups, the creature will feel threatened by you, assuming you are trying to mate with another group member and put up attitude to scare you off

Lay off cocky/alpha behaviour - Any actions taken that would normally get a hot chick will most likely intimidate her. You need to be more nice and flirty.

Push - She may not believe in her own head that you are actually interested. She may dismiss you and you will have to plow and plow to break her crappy self esteem ingrained thoughts

Offer her food! - self explanitory

Last one was a joke, relax. Anyways I have zero experience "gaming" big girls. But life experience showed me that larger women have negative thoughts towards there dating lives. You will need to adapt your game towards "nice and less direct" to avoiding prompting their naturally ingrained bullshit shields.

BTW I have no idea what the fuck I'm talking about but it makes sense to me. After you arrange the day 2, keep some candies in your pocket, offer her one everytime she does something nice for you. Eventually she will get hooked and become your BBW sex slave!


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You are going for girls that have really low self esteem … but low, who are extremely self conscious, and are use to being picking last, girls that in high school liked some guy but this guy make fun of her for being fat, and probably got bullied by other girls.

Lets be honest girls like that are not use to guys having the balls to open the set and going to pick her up , more the other way around.

That the problem when you opening this set, she is not thinking”omfg look at this loser”, she is thinking “ is this guy coming to make fun of me”

So there bitch shield is higher than even a HB10, all you have to do is being friendly, being genuinely a nice guy. No cocky fun no negs, no nothing


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 19, 2011 3:42 pm 
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Seriously this is one cool topic :D
I once opened a larger woman by offering candy (with the bestest of intentions!). Damn, that was so fucking inappropriate thinking back at it.
But just go in cool and nice.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 11:23 am 
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Lay off cocky/alpha behaviour - Any actions taken that would normally get a hot chick will most likely intimidate her. You need to be more nice and flirty.
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That the problem when you opening this set, she is not thinking”omfg look at this loser”, she is thinking “ is this guy coming to make fun of me”
These 2 posts make sense, they are probably questioning my intentions as I'm coming on too strong, which isn't something they are used to because society looks down on them.



I only see fat guys with BBW.... do you think it's an idea if I go out with a few sweaters underneath some baggy clothes, so that I appear fatter than I really am? Do you think they'd be more accepting of me if they think I'm "in" with their crew?


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Hahaha this thread is hilarious.


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Seriously this is one cool topic :D
I once opened a larger woman by offering candy (with the bestest of intentions!). Damn, that was so fucking inappropriate thinking back at it.
But just go in cool and nice.

Dude, I can't stop laughing hahahahha :D

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I only see fat guys with BBW.... do you think it's an idea if I go out with a few sweaters underneath some baggy clothes, so that I appear fatter than I really am? Do you think they'd be more accepting of me if they think I'm "in" with their crew?
ROFL....... :lol:


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