i repeat myself again, the sex is so much better, go for it

If you ask my mates I'm the "couger-expert" of the group. If a milf enters the arena, I get 'em, they don't.

Cougers's are easy. Be confident, your interest level should be neutral or slightly dis-interested, don't pursue, let her come to you, once she's made a few moves BANG!!! GO SUPER-DIRECT and that's that.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

couldnt agree more tbh, i played it slightly different, i saw this girl im gaming for all of 1 second, i saw her lookin at me, went straight over, kino very quick plus im good at dancing haha and not so long later it was game on

Yea guy, you should get it, but just be careful, remember she has a kid and just got divorced, so i cant tell you off the back that she might have other hidden motives. But nonetheless if you want it get. Just dont end up in something that you cant get yourself out of.

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?

Give this guy a cookie. What the hell does your post have to do with the OP?

In my personal experience: once they're above 30 it's as simple as making two ballsy remarks to score. They're really really easy to game. Complimenting works aswell. Just give'em some attention, it's something they're no longer used to.

UPDATE!

So I learned that this chick is 41 years old as opposed to my 23. She kept making comments like "you can dirty me up any time" and "come in for halloween naked...naked", and asking me to expose my abs to her.

So today I approached and tried to pull the number. She said "you can't have my number...I'm married...its my sister who is divorced...that was cute though..."

So what's the deal fellas? Should I stay away? Why would she keep coming on to me, yet not give me her number? I know she is married, but geez lady keep your comments to yourself if that's the case!!!!! (keep in mind I thought she was divorced this whole time)

bump

You didn't follow advice. You forgot to say "OK" when she offers ANY SORT of invite. Instead, you try to 'game' her.

We live off of orgasms. Guys typically need to shoot one but we still manage to find our orgasms elsewhere. We see our home team kick butt and we get off. We go fishing/hunting. . . play music, etc . . .

Girls get their secondary orgasms by doing what this girl did with you. She got you to the point where you, "Dur, hur, hur . . . can I have your number?" - "Ha, ha, ha . . . girls, I still have it. This 20 year old just asked me out." If you want yours, you have to make sure she only gets her orgasm with you.

"Dirty me any... umph gurgh. . . " - That's the sound of your tongue in her mouth.

To kasabi....we were at work. the only way to set up the scenario you asked was to get her number

So true. I would've never thought like this until I started hooking up with a girl 6 years older than me. I didn't game her at all. I acted disinterested, flirted with her on occasion, and said ok when she said she wanted to take me home. She handled the details. Even now, when she comes up to me at work and says that I'm taking her home with me, I just say ok. The only reason she has my number is because she asked for it.

why is taking the initiative a bad thing. I'm not a woman. Grabbing the number or telling her which day when she says "take me here" is hardly gaming.

the way i see it, this is exactly what i did. this lady made so many damn comments to me of sexual nature, then i went to grab the number, and no, i didnt say "can i have your number?" it was in a more smooth manner. she would make these comments at work, and without a number how the hell would i make sure plans happen? She would say "you'll have to take me" but never go the full way. I simply was mid conversation with her, she said "i saw you checking me out, i was checking you out" and i said "i have this kid's number......not yours"

1. You won't get them all.

2. It's been a long time since the original post. Please tell me you haven't been stewing over this one girl for that whole time.

3. There's always more than one angle to take for every situation. That's what makes all of this fun.

4. I believe that the suggestion I made in my initial reply would have been the most fun, least nerve wrecking, least 'talent intensive', and highest chance angle of them all.

All you needed to do was sit there like a dumb dog nodding ah ha . . . ah ha . . . and just listen for invites. If no actual invites were made, just toss a "I like to ____ on Saturdays," out there. Hey, go all out and insert the 'durh, hur, hur . . "

If she REALLY is forward, then she would have invited you right away. If she's NOT REALLY forward and just yanking your chain, she wouldn't have invited you. Simple. Instead, you TRIED to do the joe cool, "Hey, I notice you noticing me noticing you noticing me. Can I have your number?" You're saying, "Oh, I get it . . . you've been outwardly sexual with me! OK, I've finally got the nerve to ask for your number because you know. . . it's a guaranteed fuck."

I seriously think that a mentally challenged fellow in your shoes might have fared better.

Heres the thing man. If I did nothing, I kept getting these sexual comments, and it was OBVIOUS she was attracted to me. I didnt say anything for awhile but nod, or make an ambivalent comment. Then after sexual comments like "You can dirty me up in alot more ways" and "naked" but no asking for the number on her part or any REAL invitations (she did say you'll have to take me" once, but it was vague and i would then had to take initiative to get her number, place, time, ect), its like now we both know shes up my ass with attraction, why would she not accept the request? If shes down to get down, why shouldnt I be joe cool? I have something over her with her blatant attraction....every time I've done this with girls in the past they accept immediately!

Did it turn her off, me being the aggressor now? Say I was to drop the weekends line now.... still im not sure I understand why she wouldnt jump on the oppurtunity to give her number to me if shes that attracted?