Okay there is this one girl who is quickly becoming my oneitis. Ill give you a quick rundown of the story so far:

We met through a friend on a night out. Instantly hit it off, there was no awkwardness, we danced and shared drinks together. I got her number and planned to meet up on another night.

We meet up with all of my friend and hers. Again get drunk and have a good night. We kiss quite a bit that night and a lot of kino.

We also went out a second time a few days after the above. Same happens we kissed, this time she agrees to go out for some dinner with me.

Dinner date went perfectly looking back at it. No awkwardness, lots of jokes, some lines, constant smile on her face and lots of kino. I take her home and this is the point where I turned into an AFC. I dropped her home, hugged, and had the perfect opportunity to kiss her (this time whilst being completely alcohol-free) but i dont. This was a huge mistake because everything was right.

Ever since that night ive been over hers for a few hours. But shes been busy doing univerity work so the conversation wasnt really flowing and kino was dead.

Now im typing this to you. The above all happened in the last 2 weeks. Her texts are all closed, like shes lost interest. I have invited her go to a cinema or watch a movie over mine but she has said shes "busy" and hasnt decided on a day. Is there anyway to recover or is this all lost? Should i wait a few days and call her up saying "hey im going to be free saturday afternoon in the city, want to meet up?" and try to get things going again, or do i wait for her?

After the dinner date and failed close she started becoming a oneitits, because of that i dont think i was being 100% myself around her

no!!! never! if she's still expecting something from you, she'll call you. And dont wait for that call (probably will never happen), move on.

you're making it sound like you are pushy, needy; stop that (reread your own post and try to look at it from our point of view). I used to be like you, learn from your mistakes

Yea i completely agree with you. Im going to learn and move on, if she calls then great but there are plenty more i guess. Didnt realise how important the close was untill now

Don't move on.

Don't ask her out.

Text her with dumb crap like, "Holy shit, I hope you brought your umbrella with you." (When it's not raining)

Get some sort of verbal interaction working up again, regardless of the topic. Get some comfort back . . . the segway to another outing. - No problems.

That sounds like a good idea. Im going to wait a week before doing anything like that because she did tell me she would tell me when shes free to do something. In the mean time, hitting the clubs and brushing up on the pua ha