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I wouldn't use a smiley when asking a girl out. Also the way you asked implies weakness with the "I want...". She already knows you want to as the fact is instantiated by the fact you are concurrently asking her out.
Try: "What time are you available next week to hang out?"
or: " Hey there is somewhere cool I want to check out on Thursday, come with me."
Still needs tweaking:
1) "What time are you available next week to hang out?"
You're the party, she's coming to chill with you, not the other way around...
I would say: "lets (activity, e.g. go rock climbing) on (day)"
at that point you'll get the "ok" or "im busy" answer.
-"ok" means you're semi in the clear... Don't be the chump, you're a busy man. Busy men have schedules and shit we need to get done. That being said, know your schedule. Pick a time in the form of a question (rewarding her for agreeing to go with) "How does (time) sound?" and just go from there...
-the "im busy that day" kind of response, say "ok," and wait a couple of seconds (if in person) or a little (if texting). She should burst saying, "...but im free on _____!" Hopefully that day works with your schedule, and you make plans as mentioned above. If not, then, shit, i'de say "We'll figure something out, ill call you" or continue leading the conversation as if she didn't phase me (this is all in person by the way). If you don't get a response, via text, after you say "ok," the conversation is over.
2) "Hey there is somewhere cool I want to check out on Thursday, come with me."
Obviously you want to do it if you're bringing it up. Even if you havent planned it yet, say you're going. Actions speak louder than words. If you've made plans to go to this place, it's probably fucking awesome (because you are).
I would say: "I'm going to (activity, e.g. this awesome outdoor music festival) on thursday, come with me!" (refer to the above ok/busy answers)
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