this happens to me EVERY TIME, here's the last situation as an example.

I've been gaming this chick i met 2weeks ago, and it's going perfectly. but lately i noticed that her attraction isn't as high as it was couple days ago, I'm always a challenge, cocky-funny, unpredictable, always change her mood and make her laugh, not falling for her endless test's (she's a social butterfly and has too many orbiters). but i got it all under control.

I have to admit this is a partial One-Itis but I'm handling it and I am willing to back off whenever i want but i noticed on her facebook that she was flirting with this guy, i'm not jealous or something but, she seemed very attracted to him(or maybe she's playing?!) and he's an insecure AFC.

him: you're so adorable, what can i do without you, you're my only but the problem is, i'm not your only.of course i do trust honey , i'm always there for you

blablabla, some other AFC shit but she ending the conversation by:"lool, yea i got to go too, bye, I love U"

WTF?! how's an AFC can amogme on my most perfectly planned game?!

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This sounds like when a girl tells one of her guy friends I LOVE YOU. The guy might want her but she just sees him as a friend. I say you dont worry about it.

I have friends who are women and say that all the time, in a friendly manner of course.

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way I see it, one of two possibilities

1) he has something to offer her that you don't, maybe something she is missing or wants to fill some sort of void (whether that thing is looks, better lifestyle, some sort of deep emotional connection, some sort of ability to make her feel good etc.)

2)she is just a flirt and maintaining orbiters


best way to find out, get her alone, and escalate, you will get your answer

if that can't be accomplished... you have your answer and move on

that is my opinion

You are assuming she can't be attracted to an "AFC" because you think he doesn't have game. Maybe she's attracted to him in spite of his poor game.

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no, for all I know his game is super tight, in-case of #2 that guy is an orbiter, and she is maintaining him, just get her alone and escalate, easiest way to find out,

you assume that passive value is irrelevant when dealing with women, the verbal game and your ability to convince is most likely the most important aspect to your game, but the passive value you hold is certainly of high relevance, money fame looks, attract women in themselves and should not be ignored, when dealing with women, everything matters, your status as a whole is being judged and evaluated by her

him: want to have a romantic adventure?
her: of course i do.
him: with who?
her: with ....... :p
him: the guy you told me about?

Now i get it, I backed off every time i see one of my targets attracted to another guy more then me. but in reality she was keeping him close to her, but when he makes his last finishing power move... "Ouch" reminds me of my old AFC days.

Stinking point Fixed
True that.
Nice point!

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Golden Rules i learned:
1- If you complement do it a serious way.
2- If a conversation starts with a low vibe and seems not getting anywhere, be direct but not on an emotional level.

There is every possibility a woman can be attracted to someone without 'game'. Seriously, read through all this and laugh my ass off. There are plenty of guys who are genuine guys and go about there lives doing what they do and still attract AND KEEP women. Maybe they spend less time reading and theorizing about this stuff and actually spend more time contributing to her life.

Remember, bullshit will get you there, but it wont keep you there..

Are you sexual escalating ???? If your not then that is your problem .....
Its great be C&F etc but you have to take it somewhere ....U clearly had attraction but you didn't pull the trigger or you never escalated correctly...

Once you know she is into you , ease off the C&F etc for pull the fucking trigger....

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I hate it when it happens :'(

All i read was:

Im jealous. Im jealous. Im jealous. Im jealous. Im jealous. Im jealous. Im jealous. Im jealous. Im jealous. I have one-itis. Im jealous. Im jealous. Im jealous. Im jealous. etc...

Good news is, it's the first choice.

So as soon as someone says something to a girl he's amoging?
Come on. You're making a tool of yourself abusing terms that itself allready are totally rediculous.

Yea, but i didn't escalate enough nor tuned down the C&F... actually i never tune it down.
I have to admit that.
When some random guy hits on your target, her attraction for you decreases and for him increases, what do you call that?

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Golden Rules i learned:
1- If you complement do it a serious way.
2- If a conversation starts with a low vibe and seems not getting anywhere, be direct but not on an emotional level.