My Favourite Openers


Here is just a small list of openers that I use and have tested; these are my favourite ones of all time.

NO PERTICULA ORDER

1 = Hey looks like the party is over here, so thought I’d say … Hi I’m [Insert name]

2 = Hey you girls look like a lot of fun, are you friendly too?

If yes you can go into some role play. Great here’s what we are going to do etc… etc.
If No! Go into the divorce role play.

3 = Hey girls I noticed how you both have, Blonde and Brunette hair I’m a little curious to know who has more fun, blondes or brunette?

Girls: will sometime fight over who has more fun, blonde/brunette etc…etc

You: [If target is Blonde] Well I’ve been going out a lot lately and Brunettes say they’ve been having way more fun, but I always thought it was blondes.

Easy to transition into who has more fun [Notice the neg on the blonde as well?]

4 = Hey girls I just wanted to come ask you, Do you girls ever sing in the car while driving?

Yes/No

Me: well I’ve been doing a tone of driving lately and I’ve been singing to all my favourite music while driving but people have been giving me weird looks while doing it. I thought everyone did this; do you girls ever get weird looks?

Easy transition by start talking about music

5 = Hey girls Just wanted to come ask you. If you ever had a million $$$ deposited into your bank account would you tell the police about it or spend it?

Well I heard on the radio that an older women from over seas had this happen and she spent enough to pay off bills and by her a new car, but she got caught and ended up going to jail for it. Do you think that’s fair?

Transition into which one of them is the good girl/bad girl etc.

6 = You know what I just had to come tell you that you are drop dead gorgeous and wanted to come get you’re name. But b4 I do I’m curious to know you’re friends are.

Notice how you want to know her, but also want to know her friends as well?

7 = Hey how’s it going?

8 = Hey do you have the time? Her: 11pm
You: You look familiar [looking puzzled] what school did you go to?
Start building rapport

Credit Braddock

9 = Hey I’m [insert name] what’s yours

10 = Hey … Do you want to come home with me? = Apocalypse opener

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Determination is what seperates the winners from the losers