Ok, so I met this girl on Wednesday night. We hit it off really well, she's mega cute and just my type. Until now, my game has been used just for seducing women, but I've finally found one I'm willing to settle down with in a relationship, and I strongly believe she likes me too (my friend who introduced us, also a pua, has told me the same).

Anyways, she invited me to her birthday party last night. I went along, had a brilliant time and managed to pull her away from her friends towards the end of the night to spend some time with her whilst kino escalating. I felt I was succeeding well, and she was going to give me her number but my phone froze so she said she'd give me it on Facebook.

I messaged her on Facebook this afternoon and don't know where to go with the conversation:


Me - Cheers for inviting me last night, had an awesome time. Deffo need to drop by [BAR NAME] more often methinks. Hope you're not hanging too bad, but seriously, you throw a good party x

Her - Heyyy glad you had a good night, was pretty awesome like! I was still drunk this morning but ive pulled through and actually going to [BAR NAME] to work tonight ha!
Thanks for coming x


I want to ask her out on a date, or ask to see her sometime. What should I say/how should I go about doing so? I still don't have her number either.

"Hey,had a great time with you [insert random date / event / etc].Tomorrow [ or random date] Im going to X [ random cool worthwhile event] , you in ?"

It can be anything from grabbing some coffe to going to some concert or whatever. Don't really matter where you go as long as you're confident in you're game an think you can pull it off. I'd suggest something worthwhile just to be on the safeside.

Yeah, I wanna take her somewhere special. I know she's into Jazz, Soul, Funk music and stuff, but can't think of anywhere else to take her apart from where we went last night, and she works there so it wouldn't be something exciting.

I don't wanna do a coffee date, it's too cheesy and overdone. But I really don't know. Movie dates are anti-social. Any ideas what I could propose?

def get her number first and start texting

and think about creative things. i LOVE tacos and taco dates are awesome, it gets messy and we both have a great time teasing each other. how about inviting her to a party u or ur friends are having? its great and u reciprocate the party invite. isolate at ur place or wherever and do your thing

good luck bro

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