It may not sound like these 2 things are even in the same level to be compared but you'll see what I mean. I met this girl in Highschool in my junior year, Now we are in the same college. Our beginnings were more than tragic, I gave up on her just moved on to another girl (that never came into my life) Now that we are in the same college she has been being friendly (new to me) and always wants to be with me. We went for a 3 hour walk from the college to our houses (we live relatively close) and we held hands and got to an It's On Moment! unfortunately, I didn't kiss her. Don't ask me why because not even I know, but I guess I got a completely irrational moment of insecurity. My friend who innitiated me on the ways of the player pushed me to be sexually aggresive with this girl on facebook chat. He pretty much told me what to say... Well the thing is that she told me "we can't be friends if you talk to me like that" she also told me "you better leave alone" Funny, because I have had this type of conversations before and they went well with girls I didn't even know! ...I know it's an Anti-Slut Defense, this girl is just VERY conservative and I'm afraid I just unnecessarily complicated things by going aggressive out of nowhere on chat... I felt like we were getting to like each other naturally and without verbalizing anything, so now she will be avoiding me. I like this girl, I always have, I got a second chance to seduce her in college but right now it looks like it was all ruined. I know she likes me but I pushed things too much.
Is it better to just go with the flow (like we were doing) or I'm actually in a good position right now that I've pushed it in a sexually aggresive way? Does anybody know how to make this kiss thing happen since now it's been complicated?
--I want to say to her that wasn't me on chat, that it was my stupid friend or something (I'm a great story teller by the way) and I know how to look cool after an apologie.
I just want to get this girl. Trust me, there are many reasons why I'd like to have her but I can't list them here because the threat would be just WAY too long.

It's just something about this sexually agressive shit people don't understand. You can't be sexually agressive to EVERY girl. NOT ALL girls like that. There's a time and place to be sexually agressive.

You had succes with this with complete strangers because a girl will most often NOT have a anti-slut shield up if she doesn't have a direct real-life connection with you.It's that "hell he doesn't even know me , why not play his game ? what's the worst that can happen" type of mentality. That mentality does NOT occour with someone you actively see on a daily basis.

For example, I text gamed a girl once in a sexual agresive way and within 10-15 minutes she was all like ,and I quote : "Im going to take a shower now. I'll be thinking of you and I'll be a bad girl,you know".I don't have to tell you that she told me all about it afterwards. My point is it works a lot often with strangers.How often do you think that would happen with you're average girl that I'll be seeing tommorow in school ? You understand what Im saying ?

What I would do here is aproach her and go for something like " hey , are you avoiding me or anything ? you've been acting strange towards me lately." Act COMPLETLY surprised when she tells you about facebook. Tell her you had some friends over and it wasn't you. If you're such a good story teller you should pull it off just fine.

You'll get a setback anywayz but how big it is depends on how good you manage to convince her it wasn't you.Go from there and stop taking stupid advice. Like I said , there's a time and place for everything , just be careful about it,