so yah theres this girl thats in my chem class in college, normally i would have no problem talking to her but because of my classes are one after the other so i never have time to talk to her, well finally are lecture class allows us to finally sit where we want and i find this a good oppurtunity to talk to her but the thing is if i talk to her now wont that break the 3 sec rule cause shes given me a couple of looks already and i have yet to say a word to her and its been like 2 months that weve been in this class....also any tips to start attraction when she has a diffrnt lab partner then me so i cant talk to her, any non verbal across the room attraction techniques to use thanks

The 3 second rule isnt a must, its just preferred cause it doesnt give you time to get creepy/anxious/wierd looking etc. and i dont know how much it applies to chem class.
and so what if its been 2 months, just make sure it wont be another 2 months before you post this again and start talking to her! the more you wait, the less confident you'll feel.
good luck

3second rule - you must talk to a girl within 3 seconds of visually seeing her
do you see her now? no? ok then next time you see her dont break the 3 second rule. 3 seconds doesnt apply to her for your entire life, it just means in the moment

thanks guys...i actually wasnt sure what the 3 sec rule was for untill now thanks um yeah for sure ill post my update on how it goes so i can get critisism also like i said up top any across the room non verbal attraction builder tips thanks

lol!

great point!!!

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Ha ha, wouldnt that be funny. Damn I just looked at her for 2 seconds, now I only have one secund left next time I see her, better run...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

ok so i just the date with the girl but when we were going to go that day i told her that i forgot that i had to pick up my friend, any way so i got her number she told me to call it to make sure i got it then she said she would let me know when she was free it is the next day and i was wondering when is a good time to call her and should i bring up the subject of going out agian or wait for her to tell me she is free also i lost the bet and so have to take her out and so is it bad to pay and where should i take her to eat for a first date and what to do afterwards thank you.