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| ChristmasWish | PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 12:10 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Thu Apr 01, 2010 4:55 pm Posts: 160 | | Had a fight with ex-girlfriend yesterday. She was acting like a spoiled brat and I lost my cool and through my glass to the ground (should never do that, I know).
She texted me the morning after and once again, big fight.
I just wanted to put it behind me so I apologized for a couple of things I did that were out of line.
She then texts me back at 3am saying stuff like "Its to easy to apologize after that, blablabla, I can't stand you anymore, blablabla, I hate you, blablabla". And on and on.
So today, I have two solutions, and not being objective to this situation, I ask you, the PUA's, the realmen; How would a real stud react?:
A. Don't even answer. I apologized, she can't take it. Fuck it, thats to bad for her. She's the one looking dumb.
B. Answer something like "My apologies were just to be polite. I don't care wether you accept them or not to be honest. Thats all I have to say. Ciao"
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| mad.genius | PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 12:34 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Oct 12, 2011 1:32 pm Posts: 54 | this excellent post by khuram has all the answers that you are looking for
my-fighting-gf-vt116504.html _________________ i have left this forum. You can follow me and khuram at (mod edited)
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| Sidnne | PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 5:06 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Sun Sep 04, 2011 5:40 pm Posts: 276 | | Why are you fighting with an ex? She's an ex. Unless you have a kid with her, then you don't have to talk to her at all, so don't.
She is not your girlfriend anymore, so why are you apologizing to her? She is irrelevant. Ignore her. Don't talk to her. If you see her in person and she tries to fight with you, just walk away without saying a word.
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| Lodewijkp | PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 5:15 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Jul 12, 2009 4:11 pm Posts: 1887 Location: Netherlands | | are you angry because you lost yourself and threw your glass on the ground.. or are you angry because she's being a stupid bitch ?
you fucking apologized .. this is how many really are .. they never are satifsied..
she's a fucking ex .. she isn't important .. what the fuck do you want from her anyway...?
and what did you fight about ? who is unreasonable ?
if she's responsible :
text her you are wrong... you totally lost yourself in the situation ... you apologize.. you should have thrown the glass on her head and she should suck your dick...end it with '' end of story'' _________________ AK-47...When you absolutely positively have to kill every fucking orc in the room
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| Apocalyptica | PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 10:47 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Thu Apr 08, 2010 11:42 am Posts: 493 | | You are asking us because you would like us to say to go for option B. Why? To keep contact with her.
Why would you even bother. Drop it. You acted like a fool, not only by doing the effort of talking to her, but also by losing your temper.
Isn't it enough?
The best you can do is ignore her. Completely. And you probably know it aswell, but your emotions say otherwise. Use your head.
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| Ezo | PostPosted: Sun Oct 16, 2011 1:10 am | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sun Nov 11, 2007 2:04 pm Posts: 4238 | | You apologized, if she asks for more, that is just milking it...
Concerning her reply... I would just say, well, my apologies were sincere, I am sorry to hear you feel that way but it is of course your decision to make... And leave it at that. _________________ I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.
bbardot: you just reminded me about porn
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| Mack 2.0 | PostPosted: Sun Oct 16, 2011 1:38 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Jan 01, 2011 9:05 pm Posts: 2702 | | is this the same "ex" that your last ten threads have revolved around for months? _________________ what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!
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