Excuses for touching!!! (how to talk your way to touching)



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 7:14 pm 
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I just thought that it may be quite useful to have a list of all ways that you could talk yourself trough her radar and touch her neck or hands or lover back.

How to know when to touch her, so it is not awkward .
I know the trick: Wanna see magic? Gimme your hands...and then hold her hands...etc.

But what are the best ways to touch her neck and lover body?
As a newbie i really get scared when this touching part comes, i can talk and seduce by talking, sometimes they touch me but i am like a stone....should i go dancing or smth...how to overcome problems with touch? :)


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 7:39 pm 
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Do you touch your male friends often? If not, then start giving them friendly touches.

For example, holding their shoulder while asking how they're doing, or touching their upper arm when joking.

If you're comfortable doing this with male friends, I suppose it will not be a big deal doing it with girls.

You can touch girls on more places. For example, on their back or a bit above her bottom and their waste. When sitting next to a girl, you can touch her upper leg with your hand. These touches should be done very naturaly. With other words: it should be like you are not even conscious that you're touching her and you shouldn't look at your hand when you touch (you should preferably look her in the eyes).

But seriously, it's realy NO BIG DEAL. People do it all the time in all kind of contexts. Nothing to be nervous about.
What kind of touches you give depends on the situation though. Whole books can be written about this, but it differs for everyone and also for cultures. I think though that in general, I can state that, the better you both are getting on, the longer you can touch her. When it's realy on, you can purpusely give sexual touches like in the neck, on her ass or between her leg. But that's something you should experience yourself.

If you're still uncomfortable try practicing touching with a good friend.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 9:38 pm 
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http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 793#357793
^simple enough
I used to never touch, at all, women were the cooties lol and i was losin chicks cuza it.
Theres no easy way to have some1 tell you to touch a woman, basically you have to be desperate enough to go "fuk it ill try to touch her" and do it; after that you go "well dam that was easy, who can i touch next?" and you'll probly be over it
all you really need to do it go out, say fk the world and touch some girls, and be suprised when you see how easy it is.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 16, 2011 7:26 am 
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Thank you for encouragement :) , i really needed some feedback since i am quite solo in this PUA thing(can't find a wingman in Belgrade)...but i am working and trying things, well there's a new one on my list. THank you a lot! (since i read most of the books and PDF's i know what you guys mean)
Wish you a successful life and thanks once more for help :)


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No thanks, you're welcome!

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