I think i've always been a natural when it came to flirting.and looking at what "magic bullets" says is required to succeeding with women (health, Social Intuition, Humor,Status,Wealth, Pre-selected, Challenging and Confidence) i have these qualities. how ever, i tend to be hated later by the girls that become attracted to me. i cant have sex with the ones i don't like. then it leads to them calling me conceited, and trying to play me out in front of people telling me things like "you're not all that" .i hear others tell me they just want my attention. my Cocky Funny thing can sometimes be taken the wrong way. how can i be considered less arrogant and have these girls settle down and have the guys settle down as well. i want to be friendly. and just have fun. HOW CAN I CHANGE THIS? and have people naturally want to be around me and not be called arrogant. i also want to increase my status. or rank in where i live. how can i DHV myself even higher to be basically. "the pretty boii" of where i live.

Well the reason you are not sleeping with them is because you are judging them. No one likes to be put down. Just because a woman doesn't meet your standards doesn't mean you have to rub it in their faces.

It's a much nicer thing to be positive towards them and tell them things like "You're awesome, but I'm not looking for a GF right now." Or "Your an amazing girl, and I think your great, but I'm not looking to move past a friendship."

You will be surprised at how nice those girls will be to you. Try to turn them away respectfully. If you learn to stop judging them, it's possible they could become your friend. Who knows, they might even teach you a thing or two about life. Or maybe they have a hot friend that you don't know yet...

Make people feel good by being positive towards them. And even if you reject them you can do it in a respectful and nice way. I'm sure you have been rejected politely before. You know, the polite girl that always makes up so excuse to the reason why she didn't call you back. Be like her. Because I know you have been rejected by the typical bitch and how highly do you think of them after they fucking judge you as a creep and an asshole just because you asked them out incorrectly?

I think you should sign the rest of your post -the pretty boii

-Magnum45

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I have always had this same problem. This is not a bad thing if you know how to turn it. They think you are arrogant, here are the possibilities why:
1. Intimidated of you
2. You hurt their feelings
3. You have done nothing to back up your talk

Here is what I do to diffuse being called arrogant. (Note: I usually do this before ever being called arrogant now to keep it from happening in the first place.) I Make fun of myself. Something that is sooo funny that people forget about you making fun of yourself and just laugh. Yet you still get the credit for making fun of yourself.

The key to not monitor yourself in your interactions otherwise you'll seem weird. Just do what you do, drop a line in about yourself that's hilarious and no one will suspect anything.

If you have already gone too far, acknowledge that you are arrogant and try to justify it with some BS story to humanize yourself. Make it somewhat outlandish and say it with a serious face. Then she has no idea if you are kidding or if you are serious. So she'll go from hating you to thinking you are sensitive or thinking you are funny. Three emotions running all at once, three VERY different emotions, hate, sympathy, and humor. Now you can try to find establish a closer connection by using small talk. But keep the small talk to be very revealing, ask personal questions and give yourself away a little too, but not too much. Neg her through out but make sure you are laughing while you deliver the negs so she doesn't feel attacked.

Because of all of the emotions she is feeling right now, KINO.

If this fails, I'll cut my dick off and send it to you.

lol thanks man i like this. and i will change my name

lol no need to cut your dick off. i will try this out. thanks for the advice

sounds like your game needs a tad more validation/comfort in it,

de-validate and lower a girls value too much, and you are too good for them, they feel insecure and judged


validate and raise a girls value too much, and you are not a challenge and they think they are too good for you and you're boring (the pedastool)

need to calibrate and find the balance