I wanna get better at sex, and i know the only way to do that is by having more sex.
I've only had sex twice in my life, both times were drunken blurs and the girls never really had sex with me again.
Should i have sex with the girls im legitimately interested in even though i suck in the bedroom and could lose them or should i just practice on party sluts?
Damn my conscience...
I had an HB9 over last night (If you saw my last HUGE post, that was the girl)
and even though i think i could have done something with her, i have this crazy idea in my head that i should get good at sex before i go all the way with her because i wanna keep her around, not lose her.

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Note to self: Be a man. Bottle up your true feelings. They show vulnerability. What woman wants that?

You think she'll stick around while you casually sleep with other women? You're logic is backwards, just go for it man!

If she likes you and you like her then it won't matter how good either of you is in bed. Just stick to simple positions. It's not hard :p

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I'm actually pretty sure she'd stick around as we both agree we like seeing more than one person at a time. She's got EXTREME natural game, and she likes to use it haha.
But yeah, i guess thats true.
So what: Missionary, doggy, cowgirl?
ROFL.

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just do what feels right bruh, it been workin for me. i cant say i know what im doin cuz ive only had sex with my girl like 8 times and that cuz i lost my virginity to her not too long ago. but i wasnt nervous or anything when we did. i dont know why or how but everything i was doin she liked. im not sayin im a genius or anything but i was just goin with the flow. when i wanted to eat her out i did. when i wanted to do doggy style i flipped that ass over. and of course you gotta let her get on top sometimes too, thats fair lls.

just make it up as you go along

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Back then they didnt want me, now im hot they're all on me

Right, you seem to want some sort of guide. I've probably had sex now somewhere in the area of 500-750 times, maybe even more... And I still don't really have a 'routine' or anything that I do every time I just do what feels right at the time.

Just remember FOREPLAY IS IMPORTANT! I like to make a girl climax two or three times (depends on how well I know her, I don't go down on anyone I've only just met.) before I even start having sex with her. That way even if i'm shit (i'm not) she won't give a damn. In fact by this point she's more bothered about doing all the work to make me come.

Sex isn't hard. It's a natural thing that all men and women know how to do automatically. If you're getting something wrong I feel bad for you.

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LOL! i dont want a guide haha!
But yeah, it seems even though there's routines and stuff about pretty much everything on here, a lot of the answers i've been getting to my questions is "Go with the flow" or "if it feels right, do it".
i guess i just have to go for it when i feel its good to do so
thanks guys!

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Note to self: Be a man. Bottle up your true feelings. They show vulnerability. What woman wants that?

Tidy, a guide would be decent. I'm not bad in bed, I've been told I'm good. But I want to be amazing

You wanna have better sex? It's simple, have better sex.

Confidence in the bedroom is vital. Remember you're the sexy man that this girl wants to fuck, she wants you to take control and turn her on. Be a man and fuck her like the slut she is.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

there's a guide.

it's called the kama sutra, lol.

in fact, it's just one of many.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

i'm actually debating getting the Kama Sutra as well as "The Lay Guide". I've also been looking into foods and natural stuff that improves libido, mood, etc etc.
The two things i've found so far are the maca root, and believe it or not, pistachios!

@vicparkguy83 : I LOL'd

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Wow this is great I'm pretty good in sex or so I'm told but if anyone can provide anything that helps them have better sex I'll take it. One thing ireally like to do is kiss my girl on her neck and nibble on her ear it's a great turn on but yea man go for it you can't be that bad lol

The answer is more foreplay, learn how to eat a girl out, when shes about to have a orgasm from fingering, oral sex, it doesn't matter if you only last 5 sec during penetration, it's still great sex for her.

yea dude have fun with it, theres really only two things you should remember 1. Is to listen to her body language, she will tell what she wants 2. Have a rythem kinda count it in your head ''1, 2, 3, 4 and again 1, 2...'' lol I found you can last much longer with that. Oh and about 8 out of 10 want to be fucked rather then love making. What I tend to do start at a steady pace, and accerate to what I want it be, if she slows I slow down with her, like to think of sex as, she gave me her body to enjoy, and if Im enjoyin her then shes enjoyin me