So I met this girl and she was by herself at the billiards hall. I did a magic trick on her with cards and touched her palm and what not as part of the trick. She got massively attracted to me. At the end she hinted for me asking for her number by saying, "If you would've spoken more French I would of given you my number" out of nowhere. So right then I say, "I'm going to need your number." She gives it to me. We talk a few times, add her on facebook, etc. Finally she says that I'm a player and a womanizer and her sister says so too. Her cousin added me because she thought I was really sexy and they've been talking. Anyways, I get tested like fuck by her over the phone. Here's one part:

Her: Damn I love you're drawings, but horny much lol? (i draw naked girls and stuff)
Me: Only when I'm around pretty girls like you.
Her: Uh huh, I'm not easy.
Me: I understand..and I like that.
Her: So my friends tell me that you talk to other girls lmao
Me: I do, I'm a selective person.
Her: I'm very selective as well.
Her: You can try to play me lol, but I don't know if you'll go far.
Me: >.> ...smh
Her: Why the shaking my head?
Me: I'm just letting you think what you wanna think. I don't try to convince or prove anything. I'm indifferent overall, I don't care what anyone thinks.
Her: What?? I'm warning you is all.
Me: Fair enough.
Her: but what if your gf were to get mad, would you care abt what she thinks?
Me: Let me rephrase. I don't care what anyone thinks about *me*. If my gf is mad then she is mad. I deal with it.
Her: you talk to her or let her come to you?
Me: compromise, talk. i dont go anywhere
Her: I, liking attention, appereciate it when the guy proactively talks to me


The next day I ended up kissing her quickly on the lips and she got all excited, but she had to go for a test. Later that day we had a dirtier conversation where I was making things sexual. Here's the middle of it:

Her: I'll be at your dorm.
Me: You should wear a maid outfit.
Her: They were selling those at victorias secret before.
Me: I'll take your duster and wipe the dust off of you.
Her: Sweetheart I don't have dust on me. I'm pretty sure I've had sex much more recently than you
Me: I like that. (I felt shaken like hell here so I gave a cool & collected response. If I tried to make her jealous back it would look like I'm trying to prove something. And if I "pout" then it looks like it got to me.)
Her: Lol, seems like you like everything about me. (shit test)
Me: Not really. (genuine response)
Her: (now seeking approval and validation) What do you mean not really, what don't you like about me?
Me: Don't worry about it.
Her: Tell me.
Me: I'm a gentleman.
Her: Oh you don't want me to get mad. Fine, I won't be at your dorm lol
Me: Fair enough. By the way, I wanna show you something later this week
Her: Okay. What don't you like about me tho?
Me: (I never ended up giving her an answer to that question.)

Today she didn't even bother to ask what I wanted to show her. We were all playing poker together and out of nowhere she starts saying, "My boyfriend and I are bla bla. I mean he's not really my boyfriend, he hasn't asked me out yet." At that moment I swear to god it smelled like bullshit so I just remained aloof with a smile on my face and focused on poker. She was looking at me while saying it to see if I'd be curious. Anyways everyone else leaves later as well as her. After she leaves however, she comes back to hug me and I placed my hands around her hips around her waist and said, "Take care. "

By the way, this girl already told her mom about me AND showed her my facebook. She obviously is trying to bullshit me. I'm cool with girls testing me but if they test me in such a way that really shows the type of personality they have, then they are no good for relationships. Overall conclusion? I'm gonna let this one go. She irritates me.

One day I was looking at her seductively and she kept running her mouth saying, "What...you got something to say huh? HUH?" Then I said, "Yeah I got something to say." I grabbed her hand, twirled her, and said, "You look cute today. That's all I wanted to say. " Then she said "That was smooth haha " Today I was looking at her seductively again and she was holding eye contact. She then started sarcastically saying, "Got something to say!? You got beef with me!?" I just kept my mouth closed, smirked, and looked away. Other pussy guys around her try and tease her and shit, there's no sexual tension with them. I genuinely told her, "I like your haircut" in a seductive manner and then a guy immediately said, "Yeah you should definitely go bald!" She immediately slapped him in a jokingly way and stuff. But I'm very real with girls. I don't need to tease them or anything, just be genuine, humble, and escalate quickly. That's true confidence right there. When you tease a girl she knows you're just over-compensating.

And for fall break she asked me what I was doing and I threw a lie down saying that I'm going to Miami. Then I asked her and she said, "Oh nothing. Just gonna be bored." Then her b-day came and a guy asked her, "How was your b-day?" She said, "Suckish. Nothing special." This girl doesn't seem to have much self esteem or anything, she comes off very insecurish thanks to this whole PUA thing allowing me to be much more selective with girls.

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I would've played off of her saying she's not easy (the day before), and then telling you that she's pretty sure she's had sex more recently than her. We all know it's complete bullshit. I really like the maid routine though, that probably really increased attraction in her.
You were a bit agreeable with her too, and she caught on quick, but at least your genuine response counteracted that.
I think it's great that you have her wondering so much. Girls hate when you open a loop and don't close it. Now she'll be constantly thinking about you, and you'll likely get a message from her soon enough.

I wouldn't have said "Fair enough..." though, she wrote "lol" at the end of the statement so she was more-so being playful than serious. You basically had her on her way to your dorm, and stopped her. I probably would have told her something like "I'll tell you when you get here." Then completely ignored or brushed the topic off when she got there. You're fixing logistics then, as you're not going to have sex with her through your cell phone.

The reason I say "fair enough" even though she was playful and stuff is because it's an aloof response as well as mindset. I like keeping things seductive and serious. If I'm all playful back then I decrease that sexual tension know what I mean? I can be playful at times but I keep it deadpan. Like I throw a joke without smiling or laughing.

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She texted me saying, "I have something to tell you, get on fb." So I get on fb and she asks me, "Can we be friends with benefits?" I swear to god man! Then she says, "You are a player." And I say, "If you say so." Then she says, "Lol this is going to be fun." But she was also like, "Don't tell anyone, I don't want to hurt Joe." This is just a guy she likes affection-wise and she said, "But I don't want to hurt him." They aren't even together. I was just like, "I see what you mean. And we're young, we'll do whatever we're comfortable with."

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get to the bottom of this, seems like she is just seeking validation, but likes you or at least your attention, get her alone, and FINISH HER!! FATALITY!!!
that will tell you alot more then her constant testing and bs validation seeking, words are just words, action is what is required

LOL .. facepalming myself .... you are trying to game .. and it's hilarious..

because right now you didn't gave her a answer and she assumed you didn't had the balls to give her the straight credible what ''i think answer.''

she assumes you are there to fuck her and you are trying to fuck her... at this point she probably visualized the biggest orgy and other shit....

you know what i would say.... i would say '' i don't like the fact that you aren't sucking my dick '' ... she probably would laugh in disbelief... but at least you are credible because you do want to bang her brains out....

do you think woman or men talk to woman for fun only ?... you can have fun with your best friends .. everyone wants to fuck.

you are trying to game or manipulate her into doing something...

most guys tell me '' yeah but asking for sex or a blowjob sounds crazy and she woman wouldn't agree....

my answer : because it's outside your fucking reality....and you don't ask you just tell her. Look between your legs and look at her tits , what it the difference ? ALOT of times i gamed woman that were getting laid with other guys who just were much more sexual straight away - i learned a ton from it.

look you can game her and all that shit but be credible about being a man and your sexuality... im not telling you to rig your dick in every pussy out there im telling to not shy away from what you want on a sexual level.

be mysterious about what you do and who you are
don't be mysterious about getting laid and fucking woman.. everyone can see you are male , you don't want her to guess if you are gay or not.

this girl is shit testing you with the friends with benefits shit... how do you know if she's being real ... YOU DON'T KNOW because she is leading and dominating the whole interaction

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Update. I fucked her today in my friend's dorm. I read what you two said and it "made" sense but to be honest you guys, it was just mental masturbation how you two were interpreting the situation. The dorm thing was just a flirty conversation, she already knew I commute, we were just fantasizing about things verbally.

Example. "Her: You can try to play me lol, but I don't know if you'll go far.
still tooling you
Me: >.> ...smh
instead of taking the frame of higher value you, you are submissive and complacent"

Not at all actually, I just viewed that as a test and brushed it off. In real life I smirk and turn my head to the side. Guys, some of this stuff is really way too much mental masturbation lol. I was just having a normal, logical conversation with her. Just because a girl is asking me questions doesn't mean she's dominating me and holding the higher frame.

Another example: "Her: Uh huh, I'm not easy.
Me: I understand..and I like that.
why did you agree and support her asd? should have dis-agreed to help dis-arm it later, basicly you stated you like that she doesn't put out "

I didn't agree or support anything. I was just genuinely sympathizing with her. If a girl gives me ASD such as, "I'm a lady" then I get closer and say, "You're right, you are indeed a lady but it's just that you're pretty and you turn me on."

Here's a section from 60 years of challenge on that very ASD test:

The Genuine Insider
Instead of getting upset or thrown off by her resistance, diffuse these situations by
having the sexual comfort talk. The best way to comfort a woman with ASD is to let her
know that you are an “insider” and you totally understand her dilemma. Of course she
loves sex, but pressure from society and men to be pure forces her to pretend that she
doesn’t. She has been pretending so long she might even think it’s true. You
also understand this leads to bad sex for her because most men treat her as if she
was fragile. Don’t turn this sex talk into a joke. Be very genuine and sympathize with her
when talking about this topic.

Anyways, it was nice to see the interpretations. It looks like we all got our own material/philosophy. To me teasing a breaking rapport by making fun of a girl's hair in a funny way and then having the girl slap him after sarcastically doesn't mean a spike in attraction so she wanted to kino him. When you break rapport like that, you are running the risk of giving the girl a better excuse to reject you. It's best to keep your mouth shut and not try to be all cocky calling her out on things.

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SAC-RE-BLUUUU, IT IS ATTRATION MAY NO?

but how does you explain le sex, from le negging?

SAC-RE-BLUUUU!!, we all got our own way, glad you got the punnani in yo face!! hope it was the kind dreams are made of!!

Yo chill, what are you trying to prove? Anyways, I kept in mind what you said about the dominating frame and all and went for a round 2 with this girl over text last night where I tried to keep shit dominant. Here's how it went:


Me :Hey u still sick
her
Uh nope
me
what you doing now?
her
Getting drunk
me
Why, depressed?
her
No, I kinda wanna fuck?
me
It won't be good, you can't suck properly when you're drunk
her
I've made a guy scream
me
Sounds cute, must of been a young boy. Usually the girl should scream
her
Not me, It's hard for me to scream
me
That's what they all say
her
How old are u?
me
guess
her
19
me
yes, why tho? i shouldnt trust horny people like you knowing my age like that
her
O yea
me
What's your favorite position?
her
Any
me
Need to be more specific than that
her
What's urs?
me
doggystyle because I can pull on the hair, you're lucky you cut yours b/c it would hurt.
her
Yay! I rly wanna fuck u now, I like any
me
aw you cant be settling for anything just like that, gotta have some standards
her
Do u want a relationship or something
me
Why do you ask?
her
Bc ur telling me I need standards or something
me
standards as in knowing what you want when you want to fuck
I like a girl who knows what she wants.
some girls just sit around like meat in the bed, no fun
her
I'm indecisive but idk what I want bc I depends on the person
me
i like to dominate, what do you think of that?
her
I love that, fuck me hard pls!
me
not over text hun, be patient
me
Do you masturbate? Use toys? or what
her
Masterbate? Yes!
me
If I were there I'd do it for you a few mins. then pull my hand back
her
Dude, I'm out!!!!!!! I rly wish u were here
69?
her
U left!!!!!
me
i fell asleep, and yes..69 is nice.
but then i'd have to slap your ass
me
her
Nice
her
U sound to good to be true
me
If you say so
her
U don't have an std or like a psycho ex do u?
me
*U* don't have an std or a psycho ex do u?
her
Hail no
me
Good
her
U?
me
Not even close, idk even know how you come up w/ these kind of questions
her
Well, my cousin says that since its college, u always need to check, and honestly u r like almost too perfect and ur talking to me
me
im planning to become a fitness model, im all about health. I hope you check ursef. plus, you should come workout w/ me sometime
her
I'm planning on being a physical therapist but I haven't had time to work out
me
we'll make time then, we own time
her
My family owns mine
me
that excuse isnt worth a dime
her
No like my family chacks on me and tells me what to do, I hate it like alot
me
as long as theyre the ones feeding you, then yes. if you want to be free, then be independent
her
I can't I have car payments and my job doesn't help much
me
then be patient for the future. thats your problem, you gotta be more patient
her
I'm patient lol I just don't like it
me
u have to not like something to like another
her
ur really something
me
what u mean?
her
like u just respond differently from all other guys, theres something about u
me
i didnt reply after that, she's already now wondering about me and im not trying to interrupt that, giving her space

We were just having a normal conversation now, hope I was more dominant this time. She says I'm too perfect and I'm talking to her, and she set me apart from all other guys verbally. Guys, let's be honest now, to me this is like black on white. Whose the tooler and whose the tooled?

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